"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The_Guy

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Hey guys, so I'm new here. I've started out by reading currently reading all the books listed in the bible (Pook, WMS, Shuma Gora etc.), and I don't necessarily agree with all the material written (albeit, most of it is amazing).

Anyways, my question is, do you think it would be possible to not read any of that and become one of the best DJ's there is? I mean, if you learn it off NATURAL instinct oppose to trying to remember everything you've read. Lets face it, a lot of people who will read those books will just be pretentious and thinking about it all too much; pre-meditated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yes of course. I know plenty of Don Juans who never heard of this site.

And yes things can get pre-meditated. But right now I am starting to find my own niche in seducing girls. I'm starting to figure out how to really be myself and still attract girls. Everything on this site is a very good road map. And it's changed me as a person. Mostly it isn't pick-up techniques I needed to learn. It was my own inner game.

Inner game is the most important. Once your inner game is strong, your outer game will reflect it. I just realised today I'm one of the most amusing people I know. And that I can actually rely on myself for more amusement than 95% of other people.

Though I come here also to have my thoughts challenged, I still disagree with some of the general views here. I'm not saying some things said are false, but sometimes they don't apply to me. Not because of the demographics but because of my personality. I find it important to try out different styles of DJing to find out what works with you.
 

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The_Guy said:
Hey guys, so I'm new here. I've started out by reading currently reading all the books listed in the bible (Pook, WMS, Shuma Gora etc.), and I don't necessarily agree with all the material written (albeit, most of it is amazing).

Anyways, my question is, do you think it would be possible to not read any of that and become one of the best DJ's there is? I mean, if you learn it off NATURAL instinct oppose to trying to remember everything you've read. Lets face it, a lot of people who will read those books will just be pretentious and thinking about it all too much; pre-meditated.

Can you be great with women without reading this website? Of course.

But the people who normally visit a site like this aren't "natural".
 

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Alright, well thank you! I guess people here are a lot more helpful than I thought, what a great community!
 

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The_Guy said:
Anyways, my question is, do you think it would be possible to not read any of that and become one of the best DJ's there is?
If anyone tells you that you can't be successful without reading a specific thing, they are lying to you. The most important thing is getting out there and trying. You'll learn most of the lessons the hard way. Most methods come down to being a numbers game anyway.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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