"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dice

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A lot of guys here don't sarge. That's cool and everything but when I first came to this site I didn't say, "I just wanna get laid" or "i just want someone to love". I made a commitment to myself to reach the highest level of this ****. I want to be able to go to any girl I want and get her, anytime, anywhere. I know not EVERY girl is attainable and will like me, but im talking about for the most part. This is why I'm out sarging every night, constantly humiliating myself because I know eventually I will get to the top and I will look back on these days and laugh at the crazy **** i did. Anyway since a lot of you don't sarge, this is only for the ones that do.

How many of you are at the level I want to be at? How many of you are getting laid pretty much anytime you put your mind to getting a girl? Is it even possible? How did you get there and what tips can you give me on my journey to becoming a master?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ethnomethodologist

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"Anytime you put your mind to getting the girl"

I am at that level, emphasis on anytime, I still get sidetracked by my emotions and commitments. There have been weeks where I have felt so good that I've gone sarging every night, and everytime I decided to go home to shower or change, I had a girl beggin to wet my ****.

It is not possible to do this with EVERY girl though, it only works sarging for certain girls. Most girls establish a mentality about themselves. They are not interested in ONLY one type of person, they follow their emotions, and their emotions wait in hiding. You cannot always see them...

The majority of the time, there is only one emotion that they immediately want. That is enjoyment, the only emotion I cannot control within myself.


My goal is to establish a permanent mentality of guessing the correct frame to be in, and actually entering that frame. I don't want to be a slave to my surroundings anymore.
 

MuayThai

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If you want to improve the focus and effort should be just on that, Constant Improvement. This is the only way to become the best, If your standing still your going backwards.

You must sarge with the focus on improving (not saying you aren't) like trying new things ect.

This isn't in relation to your post. It's just somthing i've experienced recently.
 

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Being a true DJ is more then being able to focus and pick up any girl you want. It's not a practice or a skill, it's a way of life. You can tell which girls are worth your time and wasting your time in the first couple minutes of talking to them or listening to them talk to other people. You have an ambiance of confidence and insight about you which should be completlely natural an normal in your every day life. Calm in the face of danger, sucessful when the odds are stacked against you, a DJ is a self sufficient unit in himself. Your relationships with women and getting laid is a smaller part of the big picture. Being a DJ is about having control of your life and mastery of the essential skills behind it is an ongoing process that requires continuious refinement.
 
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