"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Truble Staying Out of the Friends Zone

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Honestly, I always end up in the friends zone because thats who I am. It's my personality to want to help people, to make them laugh. Thats all fine and dandy but it don't get you any.

How can I avoid the friends zone without "lying" to myself?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I will kindly tell you this once. You are never. Ever. To repeat. Ever. The sentence. 'It's who I am'.

And while you're at it, hit the search button.
 
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Originally posted by werdmaster
thats who I am
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An excuse for not wanting to change.

Read bible please.
 
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Some people might hate me for saying this, but if you aren't interested in them, then there's nothing wrong with just being friends. If you know more people, you have better chances of meeting people who are actually worth time/effort. If you really were interested in them though, then maybe you don't really want it. If you can make them laugh (real laughing, not pity laughing), you shouldn't have any trouble at all. Just escalate it and don't be a nervous little ****. And read the bible as well.
 
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please read bible.
and never say its who i am again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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