"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trouble with kino

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Hello all,

I'm working at a summer camp and there's this amazingly hot girl there. We've already been introduced, and as fate would have it, we're even in the same traveling group!

I've been doing a little C&F, being positive and manly (when we go to the beach- it's suns out guns out with my group of guys), etc, etc. The next step is kino. I understand kino, and it has worked wonders for me.

But since we're working at a summer camp, we're surrounded by kids from start til finish. It's not that I mind, I'm pretty good with kids. It's just that I get no real opportunities for kino. (If you ever worked at a camp with elementary kids, you know what I mean). We're dragged from the slides to wallball, there's really no time for solid interaction with her. Most of the time we spend talking is us talking from other sides of the rooms, trying to coordinate the kids. I do kino when I can, but compared to past experiences, it just feels like it's not enough.

Any advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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base2ball2boy2

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errr...no.

It's not a band camp. It's just a regular summer camp for kids in elementary school. No musical instruments whatsoever.
 
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No musical instruments at all sounds like a **** camp lol.

Just get it when you can, your only one man. Nothing you can do
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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base2ball2boy2

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Analyzeit- Thanks. I"ll just try my best, and if it doesn't work out- big whoop. And the camp is kinda cool. We go to movies, an amusement park, an aquarium, the beach, etc. I don't get what the big deal is about music/instruments/band all of the sudden.
 
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