MixMaxster
Don Juan
Hey everyone,
I've been reading a lot in this forum for some time now and it's funny how I can read all of this and have it sink in enough to help other guys out in my situation, but you know what my problem is? ACTUALLY DOING IT MYSELF
I can't figure out what it is, but in real life situations I know how I should act, talk and feel around women but THAT DOESN'T HAPPEN. For some reason the same things in the past keep coming up and the "nice guy" in me leaks out all over the place. It's a disaster and it's messing up every chance I get.
I don't know why I can be so good at listening and understanding everything being said, but when it comes to doing it I freeze up. Is there no hope for me? I'm tired of being the "nice guy" who finishes last because I KNOW in my mind that it's the "nice guy" in me that is ruining any chance I have.
Why do I still hold back? I want out! Has anyone gone through a similar thing? I need a good slap in the face because I feel like a hopeless case. Anybody?
Max
I've been reading a lot in this forum for some time now and it's funny how I can read all of this and have it sink in enough to help other guys out in my situation, but you know what my problem is? ACTUALLY DOING IT MYSELF
I can't figure out what it is, but in real life situations I know how I should act, talk and feel around women but THAT DOESN'T HAPPEN. For some reason the same things in the past keep coming up and the "nice guy" in me leaks out all over the place. It's a disaster and it's messing up every chance I get.
I don't know why I can be so good at listening and understanding everything being said, but when it comes to doing it I freeze up. Is there no hope for me? I'm tired of being the "nice guy" who finishes last because I KNOW in my mind that it's the "nice guy" in me that is ruining any chance I have.
Why do I still hold back? I want out! Has anyone gone through a similar thing? I need a good slap in the face because I feel like a hopeless case. Anybody?
Max