Trouble Finding Motivation

[loving]

im having a problm deciding to act. im not comfortable enough to push myself over that initial pain threshold. all my experiences of when i did do it turned out wonderfully but ive got some sort of investment somewhere that just cripples me.

ive tried to take in all the advice ive been given and its come to the point where i cant stand not acting anymore. so i give myself a choice "say something now or drop it" and so i always end up dropping it. i never end up doing it.

this is the 2nd no choice option i've given myself. i used to say you have to do it now just do it and that didnt work either.

they say dont think a thing and just do it but my mind always interrupts. at the sight of the girl my mind goes blank, at the opportunity to talk to her my mind starts talking to itself.

i dont know if you will help but i have had these thoughts before and still no conclusion so i wonder if even writting them is a step in the right direction.

i have an idea of where reality is supposed to go, as my next step is a pretty basic one, my problem is figuring out how to get there

 

[KontrollerX]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t170897/

You should have a read of this thread and some others around the old cougar den known as Loveshack.org loving.

There are tons of women like this spilling their tale of oneitis woe for the man that "got away" or the man that "rejected them who they still can't get over".

Posts like these are the absolute best motivation there is towards being the best DJ you can be as these women are basically ready, willing and able to be their ex's oneitis motivated sex slave whenever the ex wants them because he provoked such overwhelming desire in them for him by his being so awesome.

So thats where the motivation comes from to be the best DJ you can possibly be as this is an incredible setup for any man to have.

Get a group of women insanely in love with you and then suddenly decide they just don't do it for you anymore and then go on to work on your next project all the while still talking to your ex from time to time making her think there's hope for a reconciliation.

Then one day you decide you need some easy pvssy so you call up your ex and arrange a "friends" type of meeting with her where you and she are alone together in her house.

Then of course she'll want her validation back (via relationship with you) so badly she'll try to manipulate you back into loving her by having sex with you which of course gives you exactly what you want from her that day and then to keep the project going you apologize profusely to your ex in that what you both just did was a mistake and you're very sorry blah blah blah and should just not see eachother or talk to eachother at all anymore to which she will then protest still being insanely in love with you and wanting you back and then you'll agree to the phony friendship again and repeat the same get together scenario with sex for as often as you need it always keeping in mind that if she resists your advances you'll get right up and leave which will train her to keep giving it up to you over and over again thinking that will win you back.

Again this is a totally awesome setup for a guy and can be used on multiple girls.

Read SunnyD's posts on this forum here also to see the mindset of a woman well tamed and gamed and completely obsessed by it.

 

[Idkmyname]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-AXTx4PcKI

This video is the best motivator for me. It's probably different for everyone but it's worth a watch.

But when you don't do something get mad, use your anger to fuel your actions.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t170897/

You should have a read of this thread and some others around the old cougar den known as Loveshack.org loving.

There are tons of women like this spilling their tale of oneitis woe for the man that "got away" or the man that "rejected them who they still can't get over".

Posts like these are the absolute best motivation there is towards being the best DJ you can be as these women are basically ready, willing and able to be their ex's oneitis motivated sex slave whenever the ex wants them because he provoked such overwhelming desire in them for him by his being so awesome.

So thats where the motivation comes from to be the best DJ you can possibly be as this is an incredible setup for any man to have.

Get a group of women insanely in love with you and then suddenly decide they just don't do it for you anymore and then go on to work on your next project all the while still talking to your ex from time to time making her think there's hope for a reconciliation.

Then one day you decide you need some easy pvssy so you call up your ex and arrange a "friends" type of meeting with her where you and she are alone together in her house.

Then of course she'll want her validation back (via relationship with you) so badly she'll try to manipulate you back into loving her by having sex with you which of course gives you exactly what you want from her that day and then to keep the project going you apologize profusely to your ex in that what you both just did was a mistake and you're very sorry blah blah blah and should just not see eachother or talk to eachother at all anymore to which she will then protest still being insanely in love with you and wanting you back and then you'll agree to the phony friendship again and repeat the same get together scenario with sex for as often as you need it always keeping in mind that if she resists your advances you'll get right up and leave which will train her to keep giving it up to you over and over again thinking that will win you back.

Again this is a totally awesome setup for a guy and can be used on multiple girls.

Read SunnyD's posts on this forum here also to see the mindset of a woman well tamed and gamed and completely obsessed by it.

Yep, these same women came over here and were saying they want a nice guy and they don't like jerks.

Then we saw their own posts about how they obsess over the guys that treat them like ****. Pretty funny actually.

 

[Kestrel]

loving, your mind is preprogram to not act as it has been what you do for so long. The stress of going up and talk to a girl is too much right now. So you have to start deprogram it by doing baby steps. By that I mean talk to girls where the situation requires it, like talk to your waitress, try and get to know them. Talk to female cashiers more than just saying "how much was it?" And when you do see a pretty girl you would like to talk to, just do the casual greeting "hi" and walk pass her. She would either say hi back or smile. You have no pressure to stay and talk. Do it often enough until you don't feel nervous about it. Then your brain would be ready to talk to random girls.