"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trouble connecting with abundance of women

TheSpaniard

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I’m successful, fit, very attractive in my mid 30s. I have an abundance of women and have no problem with getting into a relationship, if I wanted.
However, my thought process is that there’s a hotter woman I can have better sex with around the corner. Even when every man in a restaurant, store, bar etc snaps their neck to look at the woman I’m with, it’s not enough.

At this point in my life I’m not even sure if I want a relationship. I’ve been conditioned my whole life to think sleeping with multiple women is wrong, but it just seems natural to me.

Anyone else experience this or have any input? I do love women and don’t want to hurt any of them. I feel like the older I get, love becomes less realistic…
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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