"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trouble Applying DJ Bible to High School

Joshski

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So recently this girl has been giving me a bit of attention and we've been holding good eye contact during conversations.

I looked at the DJ Bible and it doesn't really say what to do in a situation where you have class with a girl. It said ask her for her number and then call her a couple days later. However, I'll be seeing this girl everyday. I feel like she would lose attraction after 1 or 2 days.

Now, lets say I get her number. Should I still wait 3 days to call? Also, what kind of eye contact should I keep with her? If I maintain the normal eye contact, she might think I'm playing with her.

(I only have 1 class with her that meets 4 times a week. Other than that we only see each other in the hallway.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Joshski

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Out of curiosity, what would you say if she asked "why?" when I asked for her #?

(not asking this to DJ_Hero specifically)
 
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