Tristan tate

[Bingo-Player]

Andrews brother , came across a Youtube of him talking about picking up women it sounded like it was a pirated released from some sort of course he had done

But there was a lot of decent points he made , He's somewhat a public figure and fairly decent looking so he naturally has an advantage but he clears up a lot of topics the majority of men are struggling with

He was basically saying forget about chasing after women in 2024 because you're basically playing a zero sum game you can't win , the game is the womens game not the mens

Instead create an environment and lifestyle women are already accustomed to and want to be a part of ( now I know this is a broad claim ) but its true

You almost just draw them in this way theres no chasing or messaging asking " hey what's your schedule like " " can I take you on a date "

No when they know you live a lifestyle they want to be a part of they are warm asf

they message you first and interact with everything you post on social media just like thirsty dudes do with girls they can never get on instagram

He also said he will hold a party and invite like 3 or 4 chicks he wants to sleep with at the same time , it induces competition anxiety within them and increases his perceived value 100x he can then sleep with whichever one he pleases because he is a qualified prize the other women want and he hasn't even really needed to do anything

this is all makes a lot of sense to me and also why its so difficult to get a solid rotation of girls when you are a total nobody your immediately in a supplicate style postion

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[Slag]

I've heard this advice ad nauseum. Build a great life and women will flock to you. Yes, there's certainly some truth to it. I, however, have zero interest in going out of my way to create a vain social media presence in order to impress women.

My life is not without meaning. I have abilities that are in demand, I have obligations, and lots of people that depend on me. Although meaningful, very little of anything I do is glamorous, and trying to make it look as such online would be disingenuous.

Maybe I'm just getting old, but all this social media nonsense and talk about "insta" this or that just makes me roll my eyes.

No, I'm just going to continue going to bars, county fairs, concerts, etc, and interacting with women the old fashioned way, in real life.

 

[Slowhandluke]

I've heard this advice ad nauseum. Build a great life and women will flock to you.

Men: build a great life (be healthy, successful, etc.) and women will flock to you.
Women: be attractive and young; men will flock to you.

It's just the different side of the same coin. Day game, night game, what to wear.. what not to wear. It doesn't matter for men. Just have a great life is good enough. Its the same for women. How to flirt.. how to dress.. where to look for men.. etc... etc.. it doesn't really matter for women, just be young and attractive, men will flock to her.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Maybe I'm just getting old, but all this social media nonsense and talk about "insta" this or that just makes me roll my eyes.

No, I'm just going to continue going to bars, county fairs, concerts, etc, and interacting with women the old fashioned way, in real life.

If you're after women that are 30+ thats fine you don't need to play the game this way

Women in this age bracket are generally more world wise

The younger and really fine ones you're going to want to repeatedly want to bust a nut in are not hanging around in dive bars or county fairs

The mix in higher echelon circles

 

[BaronOfHair]

He was basically saying forget about chasing after women in 2024 because you're basically playing a zero sum game you can't win , the game is the womens game not the mens

Anything that's "chased" runs from whoever is doing the chasing. This was true loooooooooooong before The Manosphere was even a pipe dream, and any of us started babbling about Red Pills

 

[Bingo-Player]

Anything that's "chased" runs from whoever is doing the chasing. This was true loooooooooooong before The Manosphere was even a pipe dream, and any of us started babbling about Red Pills

Tell that to a couple billion men out there

 

[eli77]

your network is your net worth plain and simple.