"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Trip to Amsterdam final!

diablo

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It's time for another vacation to Amsterdam...

The following flights are confirmed:
Date: January 9 Flight: NW 1474
Departs: New Orleans-Moisant Int'l, LA (MSY) at 4:48PM
Arrives: Detroit-Wayne County Int'l, MI (DTW) at 8:14PM

Date: January 9 Flight: NW 50
Departs: Detroit-Wayne County Int'l, MI (DTW) at 9:25PM
Arrives: Paris-Charles De Gaulle, France (CDG) at 11:15AM on January 10

Date: January 10 Flight: NW 8394/*KL 1234
Departs: Paris-Charles De Gaulle, France (CDG) at 1:35PM
Arrives: Amsterdam-Schiphol, Netherlands (AMS) at 3:00PM



On the return,


Date: January 18 Flight: NW 57
Departs: Amsterdam-Schiphol, Netherlands (AMS) at 2:10PM
Arrives: Memphis-Int'l, TN (MEM) at 5:05PM

Date: January 18 Flight: NW 1877
Departs: Memphis-Int'l, TN (MEM) at 7:35PM
Arrives: Baton Rouge, LA (BTR) at 8:44PM


So, I'll be going for 8 days (arriving on the 10th and leaving on the 18th) - and returning the night before my first day of class on the Spring '05 semester. Anyone else planning a trip or feel like tagging along?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jakethasnake

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How much was the airfare? Have fun by the way - first time going? :)
 

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Airfare would have been something like 954.00 (lowest I could find in the past month was about 600 total... however, NWA sent me a promo fare offer for 399 + taxes, which came out to 515.87. Not bad, though I'm having to have someone drive me to New Orleans for the flight out of LA. The best part is that with this trip I'll have enough frequent flier miles to have free airfare to Europe at any time, with no blackout dates - and should I keep adding to my account, I'll have enough for travel to Asia, which is a continent I haven't been on yet.
 

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Do some hardcore drugs for me man, I haven't had a chance to visit Amsterdam yet.

:D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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