"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trim your pubes?

The_Shnitz

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Just a quick question about this, what do girls think of a man that trims his pubes? I mean does it seem kinda prissy or gay or self obsessed or what or do they appreciate it? I mean im thinking that some girls are gunna wonder about a guy that trims his pubes...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJBen

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if you're going down on a woman, do you want a mouthfull of southern forest, or not? thats the same answer a woman would give.

Dont get rid of it all [unless you really want to] just trim it. It isnt gay or anything... if a woman thinks that you're gay cause you've taken a bit of length off your crotch hair, personally I think she's nuts *pun intended*
 

Mack Action Hero

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Originally posted by Nex
Well, I was trimming my pubes with a REALLY sharp scissor, and accidently put it too close to the skin and it cut in. The thing is the scissor is so sharp that I didn't feel it, so I continued. Then I got down to my balls and accidently cut in again. By this time the other place I cut in started squirting blood and it hurt like hell, by the time I got over that pain and wiped the tears my balls started bleeding too, and I was miserable for like forever.

It was a good story to tell my friends, so if you cut your balls intentionally just to have a good story to share just becareful who you share it with or you'll be fvcking weird.

So you can see I'd rather be a harry bastad.
I was eating when I read that. Thanks.


Anyway, does anyone go for the compromise, like shave the balls, but just trim the pubes everywhere else?
 

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Trim unless you know what your doing. If you do it wrong you can get zits and annoying red bumps where your pubes where. Zits and red bumps are not nice.
 

Oxide

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i personally take trim over shave anyday (done both).

shaving actually takes MORE TIME and effort.. when you have a trimmer it is a matter of 1 minute. Same on girls, i like trimmed better, shaved ***** sometimes looks too odd.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shaving Pubic Hair

I am a 14 year old male and my girlfriend prefers it trimmed not shaved. I trim in the shower and it is only itchy the first time. The 5 girls that have sucked me all prefer it trimmed not shaved. also, it helps while masturbating to have it trimmed so the hairs don't get in the way. And also, trimming makes you penis look much larger!
 
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