Triggering Emotions

[fonderboy]

We all know that making a girl experience emotions is absolutely vital for attraction and rapport. What I want to accomplish with this thread is a brainstorming of ways we can go about in triggering her emotions. Therefore, if a conversation ever hits a lull, we can remember this thread and apply one of the techniques

Let me start:
This is something Style wrote that I saw on Bristol Lair. First, ask about what her favorite activity to do is. Then, ask her to describe and imagine her doing that activity in an ideal setting. Ask her what emotions she experiences when she is imaging this. Indicate to her that picturing that activity is what caused her to feel that emotion. Then, let her know it's not the activity that she likes, but the emotion she feels when doing it.

 

[abcd_z]

You're asking for really vague stuff here. For starters, exactly what emotions are you talking about? Just any emotions? Technically, hatred is an emotion, but I'm pretty sure you don't want her feeling that towards you.

Personally, though, I'd feel more comfortable using stories and techniques that showcase my own value, as opposed to trying to push her through emotional states. If I recall correctly, that's a major difference between Mystery's stuff and Ross Jeffries'.

By the way, the routine you mentioned is Style's "eliciting values" routine. It should be on bristollair.com.

 

[Thom25]

You really want her to know you can screw with her emotions as easy as that?

 

[fonderboy]

Yes, I do. I find it very fun and it makes the conversation much more interesting.

I think that taking her on an emotional roller-coaster (ie including hate) does in fact lead to love more often than eliciting no emotion at all. Although if you wanted to be more specific, I'd probably say the emotions of: happiness, horniness, and (although it's not an emotion but more of a state), submissiveness.

 

[organizedconfusion]

you want a girlfriend or a zombie?? sounds like you just want to manipulate her...the best way to manipulate someone elses feelings is to feel them yourself FIRST and then it will be projected naturally and automaticly,mirrored in her..

 

[Distant Light]

What you seem to be talking about is Elicting Value. Other great ways that I've done and seen in videos are Cold readings and Palm reading. Funny thing is on some PUA video the guy is saying "This is your ******* line, you need to work on that." an the girl was dieing. Another way I like to do is have a girl you know (pivot) and have her come and give you a kiss or sit on your lap etc. Get your real target jealous it always seems to build attraction it hasn't failed me yet. Stories can also do the same I helpped my boy get layed by telling some stories with him included.

 

[Thomas94305]

I've number closed.. then walk off and ask someone else to dance with the number gal watching. Cuts way down on flaking when I call back...

Asking her about what she does for fun is good. Throwing in stories from childhood does a lot to build rapport.. like if she talks about some sport, bring up a story of you doing that as a kid. Someone might bring up skiing, and I'll bring up growing up where it snowed, playing in the snow, taking the car and spinning donuts on an icy parking lot, etc. That makes her feel fluffy/cuddly around you without you seeming weak. I've had that spin into childhood pranks, that's some good stuff.

Frame control is important. If she goes on about her work, or some boring thing, you want to change the subject into something fun. Same goes if she complains about something. I wouldn't be too abrupt there, but I hardly play along with her rants.

 

[fonderboy]

Asking her about what she does for fun is good. Throwing in stories from childhood does a lot to build rapport.. like if she talks about some sport, bring up a story of you doing that as a kid. Someone might bring up skiing, and I'll bring up growing up where it snowed, playing in the snow, taking the car and spinning donuts on an icy parking lot, etc. That makes her feel fluffy/cuddly around you without you seeming weak. I've had that spin into childhood pranks, that's some good stuff.

Frame control is important. If she goes on about her work, or some boring thing, you want to change the subject into something fun. Same goes if she complains about something. I wouldn't be too abrupt there, but I hardly play along with her rants.

Good stuff.

I don't want to "manipulate" them - it's not some sick hobby of mine or anything. I just hate dry, boring conversations. It's uncomfortable for both parties. I like having more edgy, interesting, emotionally stimulating conversations. And I'm simply trying to find out more ways to perform the latter.

Recently I've been asking people what the worst thing they ever did to a person was. It usually brings up a lot of interesting stories and builds more rapport imo.