"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Triggatrey - How i went from AFC to a player in HS PART 1

Triggatrey

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Man thnx everyone for reading this i may change your life you never know.
im 17 and of south african decent born in australia. A few months ago i used to be a big AFC even tho i had the looks and everything i was effin DEAD shy. I couldnt even look at a girl in her eyes without turning my eyes to the floor like a effin 5 yr old. I used roam around this board for hours and read like every seduction book their is to read without any avail
I literally gave up left this fourm and said in my mind man **** this just do whatever . i started going to parties with friends dressed like a pimp and acted all top **** BAMM I GRABBED GIRLS INTREST
I had a winniers mentality in my brain i convinced my self im a winner ididnt give fuxx about anyone else. I knew that night i found what was missing all along i had the wrong mentality in my mind: I had the afc mentality, i scored tons of chicks that night by just acting like a player smooth talking making them laugh JUst being me i wasnt scared of what to say next, or what she may think i basically didnt care. Easy huH
Fast forward months later ive got a **** buddy,and two girlfriends who are casually dating me ( i smash both too)
Life is good right now Guys are jelouse of me LoL ladies love me and to think just a few months ago i was the biggest AFC of all AFC and now i score chicks left and right haha. Crazii.

Take my tips this is how i did it fuxx that other bull****.
1. Have the right mentality always dress good and convince your brain your tha man and trust u will be.
2. Be a fb warrior talk to girls on fb and get their number and if theirs a event in your town or if yoy want to catch a movie ask them out
3. Talk to random chicks like you dont give a **** ur a player remember
4. Dress good man ALWAYs dress good This is like 50 percent of attraction
5. THE BIGGEST tip of ALL : go out every night and just talk to people effin get out OF your house stop Sitting infront of the computer and wasting your time reading bull**** like its a magic pill ITS ALL ABOUT THE MENTALITY IF U THINK AFC YOU WILL ALWAYS BE AFC. Think like a winner, think like player, act like a player HS girls a bull**** they like that badboy so go give them the badboy in you.
I could write a whole book any feedback will be appreciated nd also ask me any topic from convincing them 2 havin sex to what to say when talking to girls goodluk ppl onelove
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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