"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I got her new number talked with her a lil.bit. im movingback home this week finally.because i can walk but with an afo brace. I asked this girl mind you she lives in my town to get together this week. She said she doesnt have a car anymore and i cant drive for.few more months due to my car wreck and broken foot. I saidi could get you a cab or you can get a ride. She lives like ten minutes from me. she asks where you live? i told her then asked if she wanted to get together and ignores me. Why?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thelonewolflegend said:
I got her new number talked with her a lil.bit. im movingback home this week finally.because i can walk but with an afo brace. I asked this girl mind you she lives in my town to get together this week. She said she doesnt have a car anymore and i cant drive for.few more months due to my car wreck and broken foot. I saidi could get you a cab or you can get a ride. She lives like ten minutes from me. she asks where you live? i told her then asked if she wanted to get together and ignores me. Why?
Low interest op. A girl with high interest will walk on broken glass to see you.
 
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Yea but what do i do.about the transportation situation is it goinf to gice me problems until im driving?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Yea but what do i do.about the transportation situation is it goinf to gice me problems until im driving?
I'd concentrate on healing your foot before you worry about anything else.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok well its healing i just dont have feeling in my foot. And otherguy here said he slept with 5. Women on crutches pleqse help im tried of this **** i havent gotte. Laid since wreck
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Ok well its healing i just dont have feeling in my foot. And otherguy here said he slept with 5. Women on crutches pleqse help im tried of this **** i havent gotte. Laid since wreck
The other guy probably had a different mindset to you.

You can develop the right mindset but you have to really want it. Nobody's going to do the hard work for you. Are you prepared for that?
 
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Why you think i came to this board? Before this year inwas in 5 years of afc hell kissing womens assrs and im tired of the B S and i just want to be a player 4 life.
Im willing to do what it takes.
 

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1. stop asking questions, especially ones that have been answered 3 million times
2. read the DJ Bible and the Book of Pook
3. for every 1 hour reading you do on picking up girls, do 2 hours of in-field practice
4. profit
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74. those red dots will be green in no time
 

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Dude. If you want answers to your questions you have to type more clearly. I had to read that sh*t three times to figure out what you're asking. She's ignoring you? Simple. Don't initiate any contact with her. Your attention is your currency. Find an interested chick to give it to.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thelonewolflegend said:
Why you think i came to this board? Before this year inwas in 5 years of afc hell kissing womens assrs and im tired of the B S and i just want to be a player 4 life.
Im willing to do what it takes.
Ok. Use that time you have healing your foot to read every page of that dj bible for starters. When you're done then come back and ask questions.
 
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