"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tried to hook up off Myspace, got robbed at gunpoint

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Man Robbed by Teen Girls, Thought He was Meeting MySpace Friend

6/15/2006

A Jacksonville man says he was duped and robbed by two girls after attempting to meet with a woman he met on the internet.

The victim says he chatted online with a woman, known on her MySpace.com profile as “Natalia”, for two weeks before deciding to meet with her. He says her prfile showed sexy photos, and a blurb which said “just lookin’ for something fun”. That brief, friendly description was all he knew about her before they planned to meet.

"She sent me a message saying she thought she met me somewhere," says the victim.

They decided to meet at what she called her home at the Bentley Green Apartments.

“I went to [the apartment] and knocked on the door, and there was no answer. So I called her and said, ‘I'm here’ and there was no answer."

That is when two girls who were 14 and 15-years-old, approached him saying they knew Natalia, the girl he thought he'd be meeting. They also said they knew where he worked at what car he drove.

"This was not the girl that the picture was of on MySpace," the victim said.

Now sensing something was wrong, he was ready to take off, but was stopped by a shocking discovery.

"[One of the girls] took [a] gun out and put it to my head and told me to empty my pockets."

The girls didn't get much because the victim had forgotten his wallet. They let him go, unharmed, and he called police.

Police did a search of the area and found the two teens with another male suspect. They searched a purse and found two loaded handguns.

Myspace.com may have been developed for friends and music, but this victim had to find out the hard way that not everyone is logging on for the right reasons.

The so-called Natalia did tell the victim that she was 18, so he was shocked to learn he was actually talking to a 14-year-old. He says he has since removed personal information from his MySpace profile, like his salary and the kind of car that he drives.

Those teenagers are now charged with armed robbery and carrying a concealed firearm.


http://www.fox30online.com/news/local/story.aspx?content_id=5D7C3B7D-A2EC-437B-80F4-FF319371B0E0
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lmao!
 

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Parents used to say "don't talk to strangers".

But more and more people are, with the help of the internet.

Now it looks like parents are going to have to tell their kids "don't meet strangers of whom you became acquainted with (and your only connection to is) from the internet".
 

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cant think of a user name said:
Parents used to say "don't talk to strangers".

But more and more people are, with the help of the internet.

Now it looks like parents are going to have to tell their kids "don't meet strangers of whom you became acquainted with (and your only connection to is) from the internet".

i'm kinda broke right now, anybody wanna meet???:whistle:

:crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reason #568272 why myspace is gay.
 

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GAAAHHHHHHH MYSPACE I HATE YOU!
Listen to this sh!t.
I know a a gurl (we'll call her Jannette) whom met a guy over myspace. Soon, not even a week, after meeting him over the net (without even seeing him in person) BAM their engaged. WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO!?!?!

I think we should all go back to living in trees
 

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He says he has since removed personal information from his MySpace profile, like his salary and the kind of car that he drives.
Translation: He has since removed the inflated figure which masks his salary and the randomly google-found picture of some sportscar.

What a dip****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I never have, nor will I ever use myspace.

Even after moving to a new city, I would much rather meet people in person than online. I will admit though I do have friends that I met online that I chat with occasionally
 

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hahaha wow! Robbed by a pair of teeny boppers!!! How embarassing is that? Now I know why I use my page for neworking ONLY. The only people on my friends list are people in my industry who can give me advice and help me advance in my career goals. And some VIP host at some local clubs and lounges around here (Vegas...it's about WHO you know.)

"Let me tell you something, pendejo. You pull any of your crazy sh*t with us, you flash a piece out on the lanes, I'll take it away from you, stick it up your ass and pull the f*cking trigger 'til it goes "click."
-The Jesus
 

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Watch the video through the link guys, looks like the US is getting taken over by the Russian mafia... I'm sure they are not the only Russian girls/guys operating like this...:whistle:
 

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Yeah there are always risks, but this stuff has been happening offline for decades too - guy picks up girl in club, takes her home, wakes up next day to find his wallet and valuables missing.

These are (some of) the risks of picking up strangers, whether it's online or offline.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Exp said:
Wouldn't it have been easy for him to outpower the two girls? I mean, distract them and punch them out. Or does that only happen in the movies?
In movies, good guys never really die...:whistle:

Especially in this case, the guy did the right thing. Because it turned out the guns were real and they were loaded.
See how stupid it could have been to have your great life ended there for some stupid hollywood style bravado?:nono:
 
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