"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tried to date her two years ago, saw her last weekend and...

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we had sex. I can't believe it. I tried to date this girl and tried to be nice and all that and it never worked. She came up to me at a bar, started rubbing her ass on me and then I went home with her. My question is; Now how do I play this so that she keeps having sex with me? I am really bad at this part. I can get a girl into bed a few times but keeping them, is another story. I called her already and asked how she was doing, said "Give me a call if you want to hang out sometime this week" she said okay. That's where I left it. How do you play the game after you get a girl in the sack?

Second question; I have an internet stalker, a married woman that keeps checking my social network site. She stopped talking to me five months ago. She has checked ever since. She hasn't contacted me at all but she puts things on there that only I would know. Things that pertain to her missing me. I have not acknowledged any of it. What should I put on my social networking site that will make her head spin. I liked this girl very much but she was married with three girls and I never pursued it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She doesn't care about you. She was just horny. Remember that.

Don't call her all week. You have nothing to plan. You are not dating. On Friday or Saturday night, this weekend or next, you will likely get a text or call from her. She will pretend like she's not just calling you for sex. But once again, she doesn't care about you; she's just horny. Keep that attitude and you will keep fvcking her.
 

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I need some advice. So when do I contact? Only two responses, thanks brave souls. Anyone else have an opinion?
 

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trent81 said:
I need some advice. So when do I contact? Only two responses, thanks brave souls. Anyone else have an opinion?

Did you not read Bible Belt's post?????

Don't call her anytime soon. She wanted to fuvk you that night and that's it. If you continue calling her I promise you that you will never fuvk her again. Play it cool, keep meeting other girls and when she booty calls you or wants to "hang out" make time for her.

Ignore the married byatch....there's no future there.


Stop analyzing and keep doing what your doing.




PIMP
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From my experience tellilng a girl to call you never works.

You should have not contacted her and waited.
 
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