I just started implementing Mr. Fingers' "Escaping the Friend Zone" techniques on a friend of mine. Check out his classic post here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=43174&highlight=turning+friend
The problems w/my situation:
1) I've been her friend for about a year now
2) She lives in the apt. above her ex-boyfriends (he broke up w/her in October)
3) She is clearly not over him and is constantly hanging out w/him
-this is largely due to him being her 1st bf and being the only dude she has had sex with.
Bright spots:
1) He is likely going to move to a different place in the same general area once his lease ends at the end of August.
2) At the end of August the girl in question is going to Sweden for about a month and has told me that I could stay with her and her family in Sweden during this summer's trip.
Questions:
1) When would you make a move on this girl?
2) How would you go about getting out of the friend zone and turning her over to the dark side?
Thanks!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=43174&highlight=turning+friend
The problems w/my situation:
1) I've been her friend for about a year now
2) She lives in the apt. above her ex-boyfriends (he broke up w/her in October)
3) She is clearly not over him and is constantly hanging out w/him
-this is largely due to him being her 1st bf and being the only dude she has had sex with.
Bright spots:
1) He is likely going to move to a different place in the same general area once his lease ends at the end of August.
2) At the end of August the girl in question is going to Sweden for about a month and has told me that I could stay with her and her family in Sweden during this summer's trip.
Questions:
1) When would you make a move on this girl?
2) How would you go about getting out of the friend zone and turning her over to the dark side?