"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tricky situation...

toddC

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Okay, here it goes...this is going to be VERY hard to accomplish. My friends and I have gone thru almost every group of girls in our high school (that are hot). We've come to a point where there is only 1 more group of girls taht are hot that we desire to hang out with. Now this group of girls is a year younger than we are. Heres the situation.

My 2 friends and I know a FEW of these girls. The one I know already has a BF, the one my other friend knows (lets call him A) knows 2 of her friends (1 being the one I know and another being just another girl)...

And then theres my 3rd friend (B)...Now B knows one of the key SINGLE girls in their group. She is single and is in one of his classes. Now we figure he can talk to her and try to get them to hang out with us this weekend but thats more of a long shot than anything else..

So A and I are trying to think of ways where we can talk to these girl's without havign it seem awkward (the other ones that we don't know). Now myself and A walk together in the halls after one of the school periods where we pass 2 of the girls that we don't know. We only see them for about 2 seconds and how can we go about approaching them without it being awkward/them thinking wtf just happend lol?

Also what else could we possibly do to get them to not feel awkward and hang out with us?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BrandoCommando

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Not sure what you could do, just establish a sense of security with them and go from there?!?
 

08aisaac

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Walk into one of them, and act like you didn't see them. Well, that's what I do, it works well. Girls so expect you to not touch them, it kind of freaks them out, in a good way.

You just need to meet a few of the girls at different times, so that when you're talking to one of them, you can know there friend, they'll talk about you with each other, and you can get together.
 
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