"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tricky situation...

toddC

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Okay, here it goes...this is going to be VERY hard to accomplish. My friends and I have gone thru almost every group of girls in our high school (that are hot). We've come to a point where there is only 1 more group of girls taht are hot that we desire to hang out with. Now this group of girls is a year younger than we are. Heres the situation.

My 2 friends and I know a FEW of these girls. The one I know already has a BF, the one my other friend knows (lets call him A) knows 2 of her friends (1 being the one I know and another being just another girl)...

And then theres my 3rd friend (B)...Now B knows one of the key SINGLE girls in their group. She is single and is in one of his classes. Now we figure he can talk to her and try to get them to hang out with us this weekend but thats more of a long shot than anything else..

So A and I are trying to think of ways where we can talk to these girl's without havign it seem awkward (the other ones that we don't know). Now myself and A walk together in the halls after one of the school periods where we pass 2 of the girls that we don't know. We only see them for about 2 seconds and how can we go about approaching them without it being awkward/them thinking wtf just happend lol?

Also what else could we possibly do to get them to not feel awkward and hang out with us?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BrandoCommando

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Not sure what you could do, just establish a sense of security with them and go from there?!?
 

08aisaac

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Walk into one of them, and act like you didn't see them. Well, that's what I do, it works well. Girls so expect you to not touch them, it kind of freaks them out, in a good way.

You just need to meet a few of the girls at different times, so that when you're talking to one of them, you can know there friend, they'll talk about you with each other, and you can get together.
 
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