"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tricky Situation, What is your solution?

Lost In the Seas

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I have been dating Girl A for some time, things were amazing, probably the best time i have had with a girl. But things went for the worst when i told her how i feel about her too soon, killing the fantasy and mystery.

When she asked for the break up, i didn't really react to it much, and she heard how i got interested in other girls soon after and her jealousy took over. But i had ignored her and put her in the cold pretty much, then she got so annoying always calling me and such to the point i got pissed at her.

She probably got mad at how i was pissed at her, and she started ignoring me at school and stopped all communications with me. Just yesterday one of her friends asked me to hang out with them, it was the first time we hang out after two months or so. Girl A did not disagree inviting me nor did she encouraged it.

During the hangout she pretty much didn't talk to me, and imo she put up obvious acts attempting to make me jealous such as hugging some of her male friends, always talking to them etc.

I don't wanna give up yet, i wanna win her over, you can say that it's a challenge i want to accomplish, but i need advices and some help.

What would u do in this situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
I have been dating Girl A for some time, things were amazing, probably the best time i have had with a girl. But things went for the worst when i told her how i feel about her too soon, killing the fantasy and mystery.

When she asked for the break up, i didn't really react to it much, and she heard how i got interested in other girls soon after and her jealousy took over. But i had ignored her and put her in the cold pretty much, then she got so annoying always calling me and such to the point i got pissed at her.

She probably got mad at how i was pissed at her, and she started ignoring me at school and stopped all communications with me. Just yesterday one of her friends asked me to hang out with them, it was the first time we hang out after two months or so. Girl A did not disagree inviting me nor did she encouraged it.

During the hangout she pretty much didn't talk to me, and imo she put up obvious acts attempting to make me jealous such as hugging some of her male friends, always talking to them etc.

I don't wanna give up yet, i wanna win her over, you can say that it's a challenge i want to accomplish, but i need advices and some help.

What would u do in this situation?

I would copy everything shes doin to you right now buddy. Which is making you extremely jealous. Get some other girls! Jealousy is like the oldest and probly most effective trick in the book but for some reason most guys would not use it.

Oh and by the way I think that it is pretty cool that your from Hong Kong becuase i was born there.
 
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