"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tricky Situation, What is your solution?

Lost In the Seas

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I have been dating Girl A for some time, things were amazing, probably the best time i have had with a girl. But things went for the worst when i told her how i feel about her too soon, killing the fantasy and mystery.

When she asked for the break up, i didn't really react to it much, and she heard how i got interested in other girls soon after and her jealousy took over. But i had ignored her and put her in the cold pretty much, then she got so annoying always calling me and such to the point i got pissed at her.

She probably got mad at how i was pissed at her, and she started ignoring me at school and stopped all communications with me. Just yesterday one of her friends asked me to hang out with them, it was the first time we hang out after two months or so. Girl A did not disagree inviting me nor did she encouraged it.

During the hangout she pretty much didn't talk to me, and imo she put up obvious acts attempting to make me jealous such as hugging some of her male friends, always talking to them etc.

I don't wanna give up yet, i wanna win her over, you can say that it's a challenge i want to accomplish, but i need advices and some help.

What would u do in this situation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
I have been dating Girl A for some time, things were amazing, probably the best time i have had with a girl. But things went for the worst when i told her how i feel about her too soon, killing the fantasy and mystery.

When she asked for the break up, i didn't really react to it much, and she heard how i got interested in other girls soon after and her jealousy took over. But i had ignored her and put her in the cold pretty much, then she got so annoying always calling me and such to the point i got pissed at her.

She probably got mad at how i was pissed at her, and she started ignoring me at school and stopped all communications with me. Just yesterday one of her friends asked me to hang out with them, it was the first time we hang out after two months or so. Girl A did not disagree inviting me nor did she encouraged it.

During the hangout she pretty much didn't talk to me, and imo she put up obvious acts attempting to make me jealous such as hugging some of her male friends, always talking to them etc.

I don't wanna give up yet, i wanna win her over, you can say that it's a challenge i want to accomplish, but i need advices and some help.

What would u do in this situation?

I would copy everything shes doin to you right now buddy. Which is making you extremely jealous. Get some other girls! Jealousy is like the oldest and probly most effective trick in the book but for some reason most guys would not use it.

Oh and by the way I think that it is pretty cool that your from Hong Kong becuase i was born there.
 
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