Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tricky Girl, need help

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There is this HB 8.5 that is a very tricky girl. She is overly physical with just about every guy she meets when she gets teased, even if she doesn't like the guy.

Well, one day we all decided to go see a movie. Her and her best friend and me and a couple of mutual friends. As I was teasing her, she hit me, but this time she hit me in a tender spot in my shoulder. I was pissed ( not really, but I wanted to gauge her reaction). I walked out as I was about to leave saying " I don't need to be here, I have better things to do." Then, I act like I'm about to leave. Right before I'm about to leave she stops me and say's she's very sorry, that she didn't know she hit me hard, and that she didn't know I would take it that way. I used this as an opportunity to tell her that "she didn't need to do that stuff to get my attention" ( as well as slipping in some kino and EC). Now, I haven't really spoken to her since, but now she seems to be sitting closer to me, mimicking me, etc.

Sorry about the long post. But my question is, Was this the right way to do things considering the situation?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rogerman

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I personally don't like being emotional , like leaving the cinema cos she hit you but you did handle it very well afterwards indeed.
 
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too emtional? You're probably right. That wasn't my intention, obviously. Guess it's someting I need too work on. I probably should have tried something more than simple kino since I had her isolated, oh well....
 

King of Action

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Act as if she's interest in you. It seems like her interest level is about 60 percent. In other words, check her interest level because I know you read the articles on the front page, the dj bible, and other links on the menu on the left-hand-side of the front page. Not all the articles you read will relate to your situation or even your way of doing things. However, it will give you some insight on how to check her interest level.

I think you want to see where her interest level stand with you. Stop acting sensitive. Do your homework. I hope you have her phone number.
 
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As I said earlier, I did this on purpose to see her reaction, and, by the looks of it, she was clearly fazed that someone had did that ( as many guys would just stand there and take some more abuse and becoming LBJF's [ I told you she was weird]). I probably overreacted like you said.... I'll fix that. Any input other than that? Has anyone dealt with a similar type girl?

Also, she is more than 60% interested in me. It's probably closer to 75%. I've already caught her staring at me a fair share of times, and she has told me how good I looked twice in one of the few conversations we've had [ haven't had time to really talk to her yet] (and this girl gives out compliments about as rarely as I do.... almost never).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Update

Sorry to bring up such an old thread, but I wanted to see if anybody could figure out this chick. Ever since the above happened, this girl has taken glances at me when I walk by. But, when I try to start a conversation she acts disintersted. But, when I try to flirt with other women, she immediately talks to them before I leave. She also does other stuff that pisses me off ( i.e take my car keys from a spot that I left them and deny that she has them, then acting like she cant hear me, throw popcorn at me during the movies, actually moving up to where I'm sitting in the movie theater, trying to tell me what to do, etc.). Should I call her out on this and othert shyt tests or should I ignore them ( like I have been trying to do) until she stops? Any other advice would be helpful.
 

Sh0t

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Forget her and you're a *****.

Don't act like such a ***** with the next chick.

These aren't **** tests. You are just a herb and she is bullying you.
 
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