"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trembling

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There is this problem I'm having lately, not sure how or when I got it but I have it. It's where I tremble so badly my body trembles within and tremble nonstop. Anybody knows what vitamin "cure" this? I believe it's vitamin B6 but I need to hear some advice before I go nut.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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And for some reason, not sure why but I also constantly feel scared.
 

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SOLUTION!

Hey man,

Dont worry, i used to have the same thing! USED TO being the important words!

I think what u have is an anxiety disorder. Geez i cud barely hold my head steady for more than a few seconds! Thats what i had anyway. I was very tempted to go on medication but i decided to try alt. medicine first!

Heres what i take and it works for me:
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1x Vitamin B COMPLEX tablet a day
2x Omega 3 tablets a day

Works wonders for me and is totally safe!

Keep me informed!

PS - Give it about 3-4 weeks!
 

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Thanks! I knew it had something to do with vitamin B but now sure which B. :D
Ok ok I'll give it a try, for this I'll talk to you in 4 weeks. Appreciate it.

Just want to know, WHY and HOW did I get this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Chewy Bagel
Saine, you should tell your doctor the symptoms you're experiencing.
Btw, I don't have a doctor so I don't know how to start. All I can do is ask around my neighbor and sometime I can't ask some of them, rumor spread, they think I'm dying or have a disease, then they make me look bad.
 

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why do you care what your homo neighbors think?
 

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Originally posted by Julian
why do you care what your homo neighbors think?
Reputation- very important, guard it with your life.

Law #5. :)
 

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I think Omega 3 fish oils have more impact than the Vitamin B but try the two of em together!
 

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Ok no Omega 3 fish oil for me.

Get stomach-ache from em'.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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One of the symptoms of Hyperthyroidism is trembling.

Do you have any swelling on either side of your Adam's Apple?
Does one or both eyes appear to be slightly bulging?

Regardless, a simple blood test will tell.
 

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I for one have insomnia, fatigue, trembling hands/head, and sometime staring gaze (dumbfounded to some people).

My throat is a little swoll. Please don't tell me I have it. Please.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i think it has something to do with anxiety....all i can tell you.....try taking anti depressents
 

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Stop taking medical advice from a glowing box and get your ass to a frickin doctor... jeez...

If you don't have one, get one.. if you dont wanna get one, go to a drop-in clinic

Holy ****, you have 31 posts per day... How long do you spend here? lol
 

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Originally posted by sonick182
Stop taking medical advice from a glowing box and get your ass to a frickin doctor... jeez...

If you don't have one, get one.. if you dont wanna get one, go to a drop-in clinic

Holy ****, you have 31 posts per day... How long do you spend here? lol
Half an hr. :D

Get a doc? How? Just walk in and declare "I WANT A DOCTER!"...

Dude all my life I never had a doc.

-_- I'll get one next time.
 

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SAINE! If you don't go see a doctor, you might not have a NEXT TIME!

And yes, you walk in to a clinic, go to the desk and say "I want to see a doctor." Then you tell him your symptoms and he does some tests and you find out for sure what's wrong!
 
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