"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Treating women like sh*t?

Alle_Gory

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How do you guys do it? And when?

When you first meet them? After? And how do you balance it out to make sure you don't overdo it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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faiNt`

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I don't think that you're meant to treat her like ****, just treat her like she's your little brother or sisters's friend and you're naturally better than her, and on top of that, she would be lucky to spend time with you. I would start this as soon as I met her if possible, in order to get the prize mentality underway.
 

leeroyjenkins

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my housemate treats girls like **** but he only starts once they're his gf...his current one didn't really fancy anal but she sure got it, I kept hearing her screaming in her room "argh no (name) that's rape!!!" followed by "it's alright, I'm drunk"

she absolutely loves him....

treated his ex worse, somehow turns all the women into bunny boilers - I think the trick is to be nice but also ****ish :p
 

Rhoto

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Treating women like **** is rude, shows a lack of intelligence, and a thirst to make up for something.

There is a huge difference between treating women like ****, and treating women like they don't matter to you, or your life. The latter makes her want to prove her worth, the prior is childish.

Women who are turned on by being treated like sh1t are usually emotionally FUBAR, and create more problems than they're worth.
 

SinJester

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Faint is one the money. Don't treat her like sh!t (although that usually can work, you wont end up with mentally healthy chicks), treat her like a naughty little kid. Don't neg, tease. They love it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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