Treat like ****

[roja]

is there a thread
what is treating women like SH!!T

 

[Randallpink83]

did you incoherently stumble onto a weird website and just post some random sh!t or what?

welcome to the forums

 

[roja]

I was reading for a while ,never posted

I used to be very nice guy,but now trying to not buy into women frame when im with them,although did not find much info like whats to treat like SH1t when on date ? or after knowing for sometime

thanks for great resource im reading good stuff here

 

[LostAndConfused]

What are you specifically trying to ask?

Treating women like sh1t is the thing you don't want to get caught up in.

You don't want to treat women like sh1t. You'll be seen as an @sshole. However, there are traits in an @sshole that women like, which is why many AFC's (average, frustrated chumps) say that women only like @$$holes and guys who treat them like sh1t. It's not necessarily true. But....***holes get theirs. They know what they want, and they don't come off as nice guys.

You can be a sexual man and not be an ***hole, and that's what you should strive to become. Approach women in the way a sexual being should. Be confident. I think what you are trying to avoid is getting the LJBF (lets just be friends) talk.

Since I don't know what your asking specifically on a date, here are a few pointers to help you out:
1) Men lead. Boys and Friend-zoned AFC's follow. You tell the girl where you are going to go on the date.
2) Stay confident, don't be too clingy (you know what I mean).
3) Be scarce. That means don't hold onto your cellphone waiting for her next call or text message to respond to immediately. When you are scarce, not always there, she's wondering what you are doing and that mystery factor can work in your favor. You can even work this on dates. If you take a girl out to the movies, focus on the movie. Just up and leave the movie and go to the bathroom, get some popcorn and drinks, then come back at a reasonable time, so as not to keep her waiting so look that she leaves and looks for you (it's worked for me before, lol).

 

[roja]

Im now doing more direct so kinda more rejections but yeah so what
im just telling im looking only for friends with benefits ,

"Treating women like sh1t is the thing you don't want to get caught up in."

I dont mean im going to use this all time ,would be nice to know from your experience

whats exactly treating like sh1t

is this like negging,
specific examples if possible

 

[reset]

If you are treating a girl like sh!t, but are needy at the same time (which the girl picks up on).... don't both of those kind of cancel each other out?

 

[roja]

Reset

Im not needy,
im getting better at identifying between (yes/maybe/NO)

I have got too many rejections and will get more rejections and i know that

Please post If you did something specifically thats treating like SH!!T ,either first meet or after knowing for sometime

If you are treating a girl like sh!t, but are needy at the same time (which the girl picks up on).... don't both of those kind of cancel each other out?

 

[reset]

Please post If you did something specifically thats treating like **** ,either first meet or after knowing for sometime

Just treat her the way you treat yourself and you'll get the answer you're looking for.

 

[roja]

the last time i got a yes I just shut my mouth pretty much
not to say anything stupid and it went really well.

Just treat her the way you treat yourself and you'll get the answer you're looking for.

 

[reset]

How old are you?

 

[roja]

Early 20s

treating like sh!!T may not work for 30+ women ?

How old are you?

 

[roja]

Bump

anyone
let me be stupid ,anyone examples

is there a thread
what is treating women like SH!!T

 

[CrunchyNut]

Are you asking how you treat a girl like sh*t? It is the same way as you would treat anyone like sh*t! Anything from insulting them to kicking them in the face. How would you really not like to be treated? That would be treating you like sh*t. Now broaden that to other people!

 

[roja]

insulting ,saying you are not beautifull ,part of her body needs fix

kicking in face ,have to be carefull cops and what not ha ha

Are you asking how you treat a girl like sh*t? It is the same way as you would treat anyone like sh*t! Anything from insulting them to kicking them in the face. How would you really not like to be treated? That would be treating you like sh*t. Now broaden that to other people!

 

[roja]

well for someone who is just recovering from being nice
theres not much around like what exactly treating like sh!!t
doesnt mean this is something to do all times ,once in a while ,maybe gives emotional rollercoaster

are you nice to girls all the time ? (this never worked for me,learning now)

why do you want to treat a girl like ****?
its a bad thing to do, its not worth having a girl just out of intimidation
its much better when she WANTS you, trust me

 

[The Juan and only]

Ah yes, now I remember why I left.


Roja, please don't treat women "like sh1t", they don't deserve it (and neither do you).



[Reset is on the ball here]

 

[roja]

would be nice ,but reality looks like otherway

believe me
to treak someone like Sh!!t is really not easy for me

someone learning life reality from growing up nice and doing job to serve society.
society Fcuks nice guys really good in all ways.

Ah yes, now I remember why I left.
Roja, please don't treat women "like sh1t", they don't deserve it (and neither do you).
[Reset is on the ball here]

 

[The Juan and only]

would be nice ,but reality looks like otherway

Not from my perspective. Assertive is always better than rude, my friend.

I think when you experience your first major burn, and you think about it, it feels just like you were too nice, like the other guy got her because he's more rough and tumble, more of an a55hole. You read the carefully written and manipulative marketing texts of David Deangelo and the like, while all the time thinking "yeah, this is actually what happened".

Wrong. Don't be manipulated that way, or be so narrow minded you can't see that women are more like us than we often realise. Yes, in general being strong and assertive, funny and [often neglected] socially aware is important and will help you a lot (notice how I never mentioned being mean or an a55hole). But never think for a second that it's even close to that simple.

 

[SharinganUser]

Did you figure it out yet?

 

[daygameguy]

Focus NOT on how to treat women, but on how to ACT around them. Focus NOT on how to get women, but on how to BE A MAN yourself.

Attractive qualities in a man:
- Social value
- Smile
- Humor
- Intelligence
- Confidence
- Looks - being well groomed, looking comfortable and masculine/sexual.

Focus on developing the above traits in yourself

Negging, if you are into it, is NOT treating women like shi1. It's simply playful teasing, like you tease your little sister/niece. Do you treat her like SH1t? NO. I hope you get the point.