"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Travelling to the USA

BeTheChange

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It's been a good few months so treated myself to a holiday.

I'm already hitting Dubai this spring but wanted something BIG so booked two weeks off on the East Coast - Washington DC, Philly and of course NYC, for at least 7 days.

How much is someone likely to spend if they want to do most of the touristy things, hit the bar/ club scene every other night (especially in NYC). Will probably be eating out regularly as well. I want to see as much as I can, without overkill.

Any New Yorkers on these forums know some of the hot spots where tourist game (I have a british accent) would be most effective, that's also fun and interesting?

The girl I hooked up lives on the East Coast somewhere, but it's a bit risky relying on one person as a tour guide. And not sure whether it matters, but travelling with a few buddies, although we might split up at various points depending on what everyone wants to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backseatjuan

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Dude, I envy you! Maybe I'll go see my sister later this year, she invited me several times. What I really want to do is eat Fatburger XXL, consider doing this. Also, I know that to see Statue of Liberty you have to register in advance. I would also imagine that in Washington D.C. you'd have to register in advance to see some sights. Someone correct me, because these are only rumors I heard.
 

TheVirtualMind

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DC has a lot museums and monuments. Unless something changed in the last few months, you don't have to register for anything unless you want a guided tour or if you want to tour the White House. You can see it from the fence though.

If you are staying in DC, you can pretty much walk to everything you could want to see. Stuff is marked pretty well and there are plenty of maps around too, so getting lost is a little hard...But fun.

As far as food and gaming, hopefully someone else can chime in. There are plenty of clubs in DC, but I'm not usually there for them and I don't eat there much.
 

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if you want history go to the east coast

if you want to bang the baddest hoes on earth come to the west coast. West Side til i die baby
 
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