"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Travelling ruins relationship?

FMX

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I used to have a long term relationship but not now, why constantly travelling and I don't hardly ever see her. Yes, I am a racer and I travel the country to different locations and I am also doing international events. She hardly hadn't seen me and we have only talked once every two weeks. When I am back in the country, I am off to college and I get huge amount of homework which I have to catch up. During free weekends, I am down the gym training then catching a plane to Europe for weeks.

What I am trying to say is, how can you keep a relationship together if you are constantly apart for a long period of time?. I mean I have no time for anything anymore. And I am constantly doing PR for sponsors and shoots all over the place. I mean, you go on a date and goes very successful, it's more like ' nice to meet you but I am away for weeks racing. Then that moment it's kind of all over because girls don't want to hang around waiting for you when they could be having fun with other people.

I dunno what you people think, but..............

Christ I manage to find some time here to post!. My lunch hour at college at the moment. Off to Europe this weekend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ_Dork

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You are known as a "carpetbagger" ... always on the run, most of your possessions you have is on hand and ready to grab.

You reek unstableness, if you were to have a relationship with someone, that person would have to follow you on your travels.
 

FMX

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I know what you mean. But a girl can't travel with you everywhere because they have a life of their own too. Jobs,friends and family. My flights are all pay for so bringing a extra person is a hell load of hassle and all booked by advanced. And while I am there, I am focus on racing and having team meetings. I can't be everywhere with her even if she travels with me. It's very stressful. Ah well..... thats how it goes. I am off now.
 

Omega

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Good way to test her commitment hey?
 
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