"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Travelers: Recommendation for a place to live in paradise?

FreeStyleZ

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2003
Messages
358
Reaction score
3
Basically some friends of mine and I are interested in getting a place right near the beach that would have just a real easy going way of living... like living in paradise so to speak.

Looking for a beachfront in a place with good weather and nightlife. Preferably a place that not real touristy so that it's easier to have more of a social life instead of just having people there on vacation for the weekend, but even so that wouldn't be too bad I guess.

If anyone knows of an area that sounds like it fits this, would be interested in hearing it. I haven't done any in depth research yet but was thinking somewhere like Hawaii or the Bahamas seems to fit? Any ideas appreciated.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

STR8UP

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2002
Messages
6,911
Reaction score
125
FreeStyleZ said:
Basically some friends of mine and I are interested in getting a place right near the beach that would have just a real easy going way of living... like living in paradise so to speak.

Looking for a beachfront in a place with good weather and nightlife. Preferably a place that not real touristy so that it's easier to have more of a social life instead of just having people there on vacation for the weekend, but even so that wouldn't be too bad I guess.

If anyone knows of an area that sounds like it fits this, would be interested in hearing it. I haven't done any in depth research yet but was thinking somewhere like Hawaii or the Bahamas seems to fit? Any ideas appreciated.
You obviously haven't done any research at all. Hawaii and the Bahamas are pretty touristy.

Mexico is da SHIZNIT. Heard great things about Costa Rica as well. Damn I wanna go back to Mexico.....
 

Aenigma

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2007
Messages
331
Reaction score
25
STR8UP said:
You obviously haven't done any research at all. Hawaii and the Bahamas are pretty touristy.

Mexico is da SHIZNIT. Heard great things about Costa Rica as well. Damn I wanna go back to Mexico.....
Mexico is tittering on the brink of errupting into full scale civil war between the narco trafficer gangs and the federal government and might actually become a failed state. The army has been deployed in parts of the country and is suffering from mass desertions due to narco trafficer bribery.... I wouldn't recommend going there.
 

FreeStyleZ

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2003
Messages
358
Reaction score
3
Thanks for feed back, I figured that there were some parts of Hawaii/Bahamas that wouldn't be touristy but maybe I'm wrong. We've lived in Mexico though which was a blast, but we didn't have a place that was near the beach, we were staying in Monterrey, but yeah as someone else mentioned it's not recommended to be going to Mexico right now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

seagull

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2005
Messages
280
Reaction score
1
I've been to Hawaii and that is the most touristy place you can come across unless you leave Oahu. But I would recommend Thailand, it's a lot more fun and the cost of living is really low. There are major tourist beaches, but you can get away from it fairly easily, whether you stick to the mainland or one of the many islands off its beautiful coast. You can also try Australia (where I live), but you'll probably find it isn't that different from California or where ever it is you come from.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,350
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
The first choice is deciding between the US and living overseas. You will always pay more if you live in a US territory, but you will also be safer and have a functional government and social services.

There are 101 beautiful places off the beaten path, but you have to learn to live in a 3rd world country. The roads are full of potholes, sometimes the utilities go off, and the police don't exactly come running when you call them.

I would probably choose any Caribbean island other than Jamaica (horrible crime). I'd rather live in Cuba than Jamaica. Belize is nice, too.
 
Top