"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Roly

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Life is a journey, not a destination.

Travel. It has often been said that Travel will make a wise man better but a fool even worse. Yes Travel will make you a wiser and more relax person if you have a sense of openmindedness.
You can't really enjoy traveling 100% if you're always wishing you were somewhere else to avoid the problems in your life. You have to understand, that wherever you are, that's where you will go. I advice you that wherever you are, learn to like your situation and learn to be creatively alive so you will have a better sense of appreciation to the places you visit.
I believe too often, we get way too caught up in our own lives and believe the world revolves around us. Well it just doesn't work that way, as you go and travel the world you will see that we are all the same, we all sleep, eat, crap, live and die. Yet we are all unique and interesting and add a different flavor to life. You will see that we are all human beings, that we are all unique and worthy individuals capable of enjoying our lives. Learn to be openminded, life is just more fun and peaceful that way instead of being too critical about life and getting caught up in the wave of your own ego.

- Read it, Learn it, Quiet your mind and forget it. Just Be, Live and enjoy life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Roly
Life is a journey, not a destination.

Travel. It has often been said that Travel will make a wise man better but a fool even worse. Yes Travel will make you a wiser and more relax person if you have a sense of openmindedness.
You can't really enjoy traveling 100% if you're always wishing you were somewhere else to avoid the problems in your life. You have to understand, that wherever you are, that's where you will go. I advice you that wherever you are, learn to like your situation and learn to be creatively alive so you will have a better sense of appreciation to the places you visit.
I believe too often, we get way too caught up in our own lives and believe the world revolves around us. Well it just doesn't work that way, as you go and travel the world you will see that we are all the same, we all sleep, eat, crap, live and die. Yet we are all unique and interesting and add a different flavor to life. You will see that we are all human beings, that we are all unique and worthy individuals capable of enjoying our lives. Learn to be openminded, life is just more fun and peaceful that way instead of being too critical about life and getting caught up in the wave of your own ego.

- Read it, Learn it, Quiet your mind and forget it. Just Be, Live and enjoy life.
Awesome and true observation.

I especially agree about the open-minded part. If you're more used to others, you're less fearful of them, and it's always nice and useful to have a more accurate and positive perspective on others.
 
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