"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Travel to Europe- Currency Exchange??

CGE333

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My wife and I are getting ready for a trip to Europe. We leave next week and will spend a few days and nights in Paris and then go to the Greek Island of Mykonos before heading back to Paris and then back home.

Does anyone have good knowledge of where to exchange US dollars to Euros where we won't be ripped off? I imagine doing it at the airport would not be as good as exchanging it elsewhere?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I go travelling, I change some money at the bank at home so I will have some cash beforehand. The rest I do over credit cards, which pay for the gross of the bill and also some cash withdrawals at foreign atms which has always worked. Before getting cash though, go inside the bank and ask how much surcharge is (usually about 5 EUR for withdrawals over 100 EUR, so get a lot) and how the exhange rate is, for which you will have to check the paper at home beforehand to know what a good rate is. It is important to do your homework.

Some credit cards are automatically insured in case of theft abroad, so pay as much as you can with them. The exchange rate will be that of your credit card company, so check that again.

American Express Traveller's Cheques are also insured and can be exchanged without surcharge, but only at the Amex offices, which you won't have everywhere. If you don't exchange them at the office you will get ripped off.

In short, you will always pay for exchange, but you can limit your costs if you play it smart. Bring back some cash so you won't have to exchange again for the beginning of your next trip.

Bon voyage!!!
 

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Generally your best bet for a good rate will be your local bank, definitely not at the airport or near tourist sites.

Though credit cards are accepted almost everywhere in Europe now, and you get a good rat there without the hassle, so just pay with your credit card whenever you can.

PS: Don't forget to phone your card company ahead of time and tell them where and when you are traveling. Otherwise it's very likely they'll assume your card has been stolen and cancel it at some very inconvenient time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Centaurion

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Banks and hotels don't offer the best rates. I'd go for FOREX, they usually offer better rates than most banks.
 

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You mean actually buy the currency on the open market? Yeah that would give you the best rate, but I was under the impression there was a pretty high minumum amount to buy there.
 

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Double post.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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