"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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trashy girls on POF

pyros

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Hello.

Ive just met two girls from POF so far. One whas a very outgoing and fun girl but she had a huge sexual history, plus she was bisexual, and she was just 22...ok. I would rate this girl as a 6'7.

The other one I met her recently. In this case she is not just a ***** like the previous one, she is a slu.t, she has very low income, did a threesome with two guys and today she tells me that she was involved in latin gangs because of her first boyfriend when she was 14, she's now 22. They made her hit other people if she wanted to keep breathing, she saw how they stabbed several guys etc, etc. She says that she had no choice and that she tried to scape several times until she finally moved to another city.
I would rate this one as a 7. She bangs pretty good and is willing to do anything..which is...good..?

WHAT THE F-UCK??
WHAT THE F-UCK??
WHAT THE F-UCK??

I just wanted her as a FWB, but Im reconsidering it...I may downgrade her to booty-call or to nothing...

Did you ever had a FWB that was crazy, had huge baggage or something like this? Is it worthy? I may just dump her...all her damn baggage just destroys my desire to bang her, it makes me see her as really LOW value girl which she is indeed...she is fun though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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apprenticedj

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Baggage and craziness are never good. If I'm interested in a girl as FWB or booty call I NEVER delve into their past. I just feel that it's irrelevant to go down that path if I'm only trying to bang her because honestly it's irrelevant to the goal. Now if I was actively looking for a relationship I would be more interested but I would stop short of asking specifics such as exactly how many partners she has had, ever had a threesome etc. I do this for two reasons: 1. The past is the past and it will never be altered (just think of your own sexual history) and 2. because it's rare for a girl to be honest about this stuff anyways. If she tells you she banged five guys in the past you can safely assume it was probably really ten.

Just curious, you seem more interested in girl #1, how bad was her sexual history?
 

pyros

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apprenticedj said:
Baggage and craziness are never good. If I'm interested in a girl as FWB or booty call I NEVER delve into their past. I just feel that it's irrelevant to go down that path if I'm only trying to bang her because honestly it's irrelevant to the goal. Now if I was actively looking for a relationship I would be more interested but I would stop short of asking specifics such as exactly how many partners she has had, ever had a threesome etc. I do this for two reasons: 1. The past is the past and it will never be altered (just think of your own sexual history) and 2. because it's rare for a girl to be honest about this stuff anyways. If she tells you she banged five guys in the past you can safely assume it was probably really ten.

Just curious, you seem more interested in girl #1, how bad was her sexual history?
Well, as far as I know, she banged 7 guys, 2 girls, 1 ONS, and had sex without intercourse with 2 more guys. And this is just what she confessed, so probably it is more. She had these 'crazy teen years' when she was kind of out of control, she admits.

Besides, she has now several orbiters that text her, plus she has one or two exboyfriends who still talk to her...she also dresses too sluty all the damn time, even if its 08:00 am and she's going to have a coffee...shes pretty fun though.
 
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