"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trapped miner in Chile is a DJ

MatureDJ

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http://www.foxnews.com/world/2010/0...ed-wife-meets-mistress-vigil/?test=latestnews

Trapped Miner Finds Himself in Another Tight Spot After Wife Meets Mistress at Vigil

One of the trapped Chilean miners is dreading his rescue after his wife met his secret mistress at the entrance to the San Jose mine, The Sun reported Thursday.

Yonni Barrios' wife, Marta Salinas, and Barrios' lover, Susana Valenzuela, were both holding vigils for him outside the mine.

Salinas was stunned when she heard Valenzuela shouting his name amid a crowd of miners' loved ones.

Salinas, 56, is said to be "horrified". However, she is determined not to give up her man to her love rival.

She told friends: "Barrios is my husband. He loves me and I am his devoted wife. This woman has no legitimacy."

But Valenzuela said the 50-year-old miner, who she met on a training course five years ago, was planning to leave his wife for her.

She said: "We are in love. I'll wait for him."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cheating on your wife does not equate DJism.
 

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I imagine if you have a job it is easy to get a mistress in Chile. It's not the feminist, man hating, take-the-guy-to-the-cleaners -in-a-divorce place that the US is.
 

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Cheating on your wife alone does not equal DJ, but both women are fully aware of what is going on but are fighting for him tooth and nail. Notice how the wife does not blame the cheating husband (as a wife would if the husband were AFC) but instead blames the mistress.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The only reason his wife isn't blowing a gasket is because the guy is trapped underground and if there is one thing people love to do, it's trying to appear pious in front of a camera while drama is going on. On top of that, she's just competing with the other woman by trying to show how loyal she is to him versus the other one.
 

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That, and the the fact that guy will probably become a millionaire when he gets out, considering the settlement money the mining corporation is gonna have to pay the miners, according to some media.
 

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Radharc said:
That, and the the fact that guy will probably become a millionaire when he gets out, considering the settlement money the mining corporation is gonna have to pay the miners, according to some media.
The mining co. involved is broke and BK, no money coming from them. Maybe book or movie rights though.
 

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cordoncordon said:
The mining co. involved is broke and BK, no money coming from them. Maybe book or movie rights though.
Last I heard a judge froze the corporation/owners account and arrested an ammount for future settlements. And it also seemed the bankrupcy was a move by the owners to avoid having to pay settlements.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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