"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Traped!

foxintehsnow

Don Juan
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Ok heres the deal guys i'm 17, I've been dating one girl for over a year.
I love her she seems to be someone I would spend the rest of my life with she does everything for me. Shes good looking. She has intrests in things i have intreast in. She loves me to peices.

But theres one problem my parents are sick of her and I feel like i want to be with her but theres soo many other girls. yet i know i want to be with her what should i do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SinJester

Master Don Juan
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I think you answered your own question. You shouldn't be asking us you should be looking deeper into yourself.

Just think of this. You two are either going to get married or break up.
 
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