"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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******** translation - you treat me quite rough in the bedroom

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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spider_007

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depends on what you are really doing.

There is a time and place for averything.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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She either likes it rough or saying you are too rough.
 

pingpongz

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she wants you to be more gentle .

Listen to tenacious D - **** her gently song then you will understand...
 

Nighthawk

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I love it but please reassure me you are not really a psycho murderer so I can enjoy it more.

Note she didn't say 'too rough.'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigjohnson

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Women have trouble separating sex and the rest of life. That has been my experience at least. The vast majority have a difficult time getting their heads around the fact that you as a man can have pornstar sex with them and AFTERWARDS still think of them tenderly outside that context.
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
W0manese translation: Note I didn't say too rough. That was some of the best sex I ever had!

I'm proud of you! Cheers!
 
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