"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dating this girl for 3 months. after she goes down on me, i ask her to be my GF, her reply:

"I need more time, but i want to date you exclusively"

your opinion? im not sure if i want to let her have me exclusively without being my gf.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spider_007

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she goes down on you and doesn't want you be your g/f, and you have a prob. with this. she wants to be f/buddies but doesn't want to apear like a slut.
 

DonMEgaHoss

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depends....

Well.. Its seems from the broad veiw of things that, If you want her for LTR or if you think she's material for it. Let her take her time. Or at the other hand she could be like a doggie marking its territory. MEANING : Your Conqured.

She already bagged you for her mantlepeice. And not by being your gf. But wanting you exclusive means she could get away with f***ing other dudes while she assumes you to be exclusive. Its gotta be yes or no.

Just my 2 cents for yah. Dooonnn Mega Megga Mega!
 
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