"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dating this girl for 3 months. after she goes down on me, i ask her to be my GF, her reply:

"I need more time, but i want to date you exclusively"

your opinion? im not sure if i want to let her have me exclusively without being my gf.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she goes down on you and doesn't want you be your g/f, and you have a prob. with this. she wants to be f/buddies but doesn't want to apear like a slut.
 

DonMEgaHoss

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depends....

Well.. Its seems from the broad veiw of things that, If you want her for LTR or if you think she's material for it. Let her take her time. Or at the other hand she could be like a doggie marking its territory. MEANING : Your Conqured.

She already bagged you for her mantlepeice. And not by being your gf. But wanting you exclusive means she could get away with f***ing other dudes while she assumes you to be exclusive. Its gotta be yes or no.

Just my 2 cents for yah. Dooonnn Mega Megga Mega!
 
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