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[inzone50]

My g/f of 6 months tells me she doesn't like it when i "grope" her in public because she feels its just for the two of us and she feels objectified. She says she has no problem with PDA just kiss and hold hands.

Now she tells me this after 6 months she didn't have a problem b4?

anyway it kinda upset me and i failed by letting my emotion show

she asked me if i was mad, i said i wasn't she said you look mad. she said she feels bad for saying it. but she wants to be able to tell me these things. i said i can respect that.

now i showed that i was mad by not being as talkative and my facial expression. now i didn't look pissed or say anything bad.

i should've just been like hahaha "k, you'll come runnin to me"

anyway tho, why she say that?

 

[d_sturbed_1]

How are you groping her?

I ask beause if you grope her in public, she's gonna be like "omg, i'm being groped in public!" If you grope her secretly and then look at her and flash a ****y smile, it would work fine, but if you just stand there groping her it would look and feel really weird, and she'd be standing there like "here I am standing her and my bf is just standing here, with his hands all over me." I'm getting weird creepy vibes just thinking about that.

I'm not there though so I don't know how it happened.

Personally, if a girl mentioned me groping her, I wouldn't get angry at all. I would grope her immediately, give a ****y smile, and whisper in her ear "you mean like this?"

Not mystery method or seduction secrets, just plain field experience talking.

 

[inzone50]

nah she was all serious tho so i didn't do that tease^

but i mean i run my finger up her thigh for a bit than smile, or give her a hug and cup her boobs. or grab her ass

 

[Last Man Standing]

She is saying "Quit groping me in public!"

What don't you understand???

There are boundaries, kid!

The reason, "they" are called "private" parts, is because they are private and NOT for public consumption!!!

 

[LovelyLady]

Many men saythey want a ***** in t5he bedroom and a lady outside the bedroom... women want a a guy who is great in bed - and a gentleman outside the bedroom. It's called respect - and self control.

Affection and groping are two different things, you know?

 

[iqqi]

but i mean i run my finger up her thigh for a bit than smile, or give her a hug and cup her boobs. or grab her ass

If you were my boyfriend, and you did this to me in public all the time, I'd beat the sh!t out of you.:box:

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

My g/f of 6 months tells me she doesn't like it when i "grope" her in public because she feels its just for the two of us and she feels objectified. She says she has no problem with PDA just kiss and hold hands.

Now she tells me this after 6 months she didn't have a problem b4?

anyway it kinda upset me and i failed by letting my emotion show

she asked me if i was mad, i said i wasn't she said you look mad. she said she feels bad for saying it. but she wants to be able to tell me these things. i said i can respect that.

now i showed that i was mad by not being as talkative and my facial expression. now i didn't look pissed or say anything bad.

i should've just been like hahaha "k, you'll come runnin to me"

anyway tho, why she say that?

If she wants you to stop then, you have to stop. But, you say she all of the sudden now, has a problem with it. So, if you want. Ask her why is was ok then and not now.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

fall back and grope less. it looks kinda trashy. these people were makin out on the subway, grabbing and ****, i though they were fin to screw. my lil cousin was wit me, i interupted them and was like "son go get a f-ng room", the rest of us ain't tryin 2 see all that. its kinda gross

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

She is saying "Quit groping me in public!"

What don't you understand???

There are boundaries, kid!

The reason, "they" are called "private" parts, is because they are private and NOT for public consumption!!!

+1

I would not tolerate that behavior.

 

[( . )( . )]

"womenese"??

Sounds like bullsh!t to me, I've yet to meet a chick who doesnt like a bit of manhandling (groping sounds too oprahesque and faggoty for me.) in public places, obviously your not pinning her down and dry humping her on the sidewalk?

Anyways, its an easy fix. "Grope" someone else.

And for future reference, heres your problem underlined. :

My g/f of 6 months tells me

She knows where the door is yeah?

she asked me if i was mad, i said i wasn't she said you look mad. she said she feels bad for saying it. but she wants to be able to tell me these things. i said i can respect that.

Cmon, your a man now. Sh!t like this should be responded with a roll of the eyes and a slap on the ass.


Btw, I used to think PDA's were as a so-called wise man once said "unoriginal exhibitionism". Now I realise I was just an insecure overthinking tool for swallowing that tripe. The real answer is who gives a phuck what someone you dont know is thinking.

 

[jazzmaster2]

Now she tells me this after 6 months she didn't have a problem b4?

anyway tho, why she say that?

Wait a second, it took her 6 months to tell you that? That's probably your fault, man.

It seems trivial that that this is something you should have only attempted, and gauge for her reaction to see whether or not she's comfortable with being touched like that.

From what you're saying, I don't think you even wanted to notice her facial reaction when you groped her.

Women are not that cryptic. You were probably blind.

 

[cobrajoe]

After six months? It could be something like her wanting a more serious relationship.

And besides, if you hold off in public, it'll give you more to look forward to in the bedroom.

Also, it would be appreciated by people like me. I'm currently single and I hate to watch couples get touchy feely in public, it's always a reminder of what I'm not getting now.