I'm in college, I've got my own dorm room, and the dorms often all go out to clubs for events and stuff. Problem is, I can't figure out the whole process of getting them back to the dorm. Last time I even got the "I have to find my friend first" line. Any tips on this part of the night? and keep in mind we're both drunk, likely.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
transitioning out of the club
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