"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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transition to kino

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nvictor

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hola djs,

Just built rapport with her for about 30 minutes. But nothing happened. Nada. I couldn't take it to the next step. I made her laugh. I made her the cube game. She liked it. Even told me where I did learn that stuff. It's great.

give me advice on kino. I have a palm reading book. I just don't know how to initiate without her knowing I just wanted to "touch" her...
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bro i personally dont like that whole palm reading crap...why do you have to waste your time reading something just so you 2 can touch.

kino works best when its natural and flows right out.

Are you shy around her...you say you made her laugh....during her laugh stages its the best time to tease her, play with her, then pull back and repeat.

give some more info on your situation.
 
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Palm reading sucks. I don't know what the box game is, but it also sucks.

I'd start with elbow nudges or something and work you way in as the game progresses. Ya know, something a normal human being would do. If she's laughing, poke her or something. It's fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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Charm&Style

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worrying is the last thing, especially when your around the girl cuz shell instantly know your nervous.

Be relax, tickle her, squeez her (like a bear hug) if she hitts you untill she says Ahhhh i cant breath, w/e you do have fun.


good shvt bro.

peace

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