"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Steam

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How long do you think it will take to become succesful at djin not a Pua but close to one. Or just succesful with life and women
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CyranoDeBergerac

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Originally posted by Steam
How long do you think it will take to become succesful at djin not a Pua but close to one. Or just succesful with life and women
Two things:

First: It all depends on the student. Some take to it like a Duck to Water, some work at it until they realize their potential, but for all it in the extension of their most positive self.

Second: You're 15. You have all the time in the world, so take as much as you need to get it right...
 

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It takes exactly 479 days, 6 hours and 35.67843 minutes. (Give or take a few milliseconds)

:p

For real though...like Cyrano said, it all depends. Personally it took me about a year to really change my mentality and get results. Everyone is different though and there is never a point where you arrive and say "Okay, thats it I am now a DJ...hooray for me!"

It doesnt work this way. In fact the learning never stops! I still fail miserably from time to time. The difference between me and the AFC is that I have learned to sincerely laugh it off when I crash and burn.

Kind of like learning to ice skate. Do you get all upset and down on yourself when you fall and your friends laugh at you? Or do you laugh right along with them, get up and brush yourself off?

The crux of the AFC is that he takes his own self image wayyy too seriously. Experimentation becomes a scary thing instead of the FUN its supposed to be.

In short...

Trial & Error is the DJs lifetime companion. Learn to love it and you will be flying in no time!
 
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