"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Transfering- College App Q's

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Someone was telling me something about early decision and early action

anyways, im not sure about what early action really means. Do i want it?

Also.. what is a Teacher or Credential Program[choices are interested and uninterested] and what is Credential Objective Name[choices are multiple subject, other subject, single subject credential] ???????

but if i choose uninterested for credential program then it still has the thing for credential objective name. wtf is that??????????
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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diablo

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  • Picks up the college's phonebook (or dials campus info's number)
  • Looks for "Academic Advising/Counselling"
  • Calls them
  • Asks them those questions
  • Trusts what they say more than what people on an internet forum think...
 

thefonz

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Originally posted by diablo
Remind me to never apply to that university...
hahaha, oh man

dude...don't you have a school guidance counselor?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Early Decision means you sign a legally bonding contract that obligates you to attend if they choose to admit you. I think Early Action means something slightly different but I'm not sure.

If you have anymore questions about college, do a search on google for college discussion forums, there are plenty of them and they will be more helpful and knowledgable than here.
 

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You seriously called and they didn't know what it was? That's pretty damn bush league if they don't even know how to complete the very application form to their school that they created.

I think Early Action might mean something like you're not going to "hibernate" around if you're accepted. Like, you'll be there the following semester, as opposed to sometime down the road a ways.

I just can't get over that those idiots can't even answer their own questions :rolleyes:
 
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