"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Transfer a "power" through your hands

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I stumbled upon a couple of techniques the other night that worked wonders for building attraction/excitement.

When she says she likes this or that about you, tell her if she's a good girl you might transfer some of [whatever] "power" over to her. She'll ask what you mean.

Let's say your skill is guitar playing (that's what mine was on Saturday). Take her hand, place it between both of yours (horizontally) and tell her that you're going to transfer some guitar playing skill over to her. Tell her she is going to feel a tingling, warm sensation. Ask her if she's ready, tell her to close her eyes and concentrate.

I guarantee she'll say that she feels "something" LOL. Congratulations... you've penetrated her mentally and she now feels much closer to you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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