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"Tranny, Tranny, Go Away," Cost this Guy $400K

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And some bull dyke "gay rights" lawyers got about half of that money, I guarantee, as well as becoming famous within their community, which is worth a lot of future business to their practice. It's not about rights; it's about money.

http://www.katu.com/news/local/Bar-...sgendered-patrons-to-stay-away-221799421.html

PORTLAND, Ore. – A Portland bar owner was ordered to pay $400,000 in damages to a group of transgender customers after telling them they weren’t welcome in his bar, according to the Oregon Bureau of Labor and Industries.

That violated an Oregon law that prohibits discrimination based on gender, sexual orientation or gender identity, state officials ruled.

BOLI investigators said Christopher Penner, owner of The P Club, last summer called a patron named Cassandra and told her and her friends to “not come back on Friday nights.”

Cassandra and her friends were members of a group called the “T-Girls,” which includes transgender people. BOLI found that Penner called back a few days later and said that his bar was losing money when her group was around because people thought The P Club was a “tranny bar” or a “gay bar.”

“The P Club’s decline in Friday night sales between January 2011 and June 2012 is not a defense, and no evidence was presented to show that the T-Girls had caused any other problems at the P Club that might have justified Penner’s decision to ask them not to return on Friday nights,” deputy labor commissioner Christie Hammond wrote in her findings on the case.

The P Club has since changed its name. It is now known as The Twilight Room Annex. The bar is located on N. Lombard Street.

Penner does not want to speak publicly about the ruling, according to his attorney, Jonathan Radmacher.

Radmacher said Penner was "not surprised in the least" about the ruling.

"We think it's wrong, but we thought it was wrong from the get-go," Radmacher said.

He admits that Penner left the voicemails in a "stupid way," but contends that Penner's intention was never to exclude the T-Girls from his bar.

He pointed out that Penner had let them in his bar for four years without incident. Radmacher said Penner and the club had an informal agreement to discuss if there were ever issues with them hanging out at The P Club, and this incident was Penner trying to have a dialogue.

"He's not anti-LGBT. He doesn't want to be a poster child for somebody who is going to oppose all races, genders, etc. from coming into places of public accommodation," Radmacher said.

Penner can file an appeal but hasn't yet decided if he will or not.

If the ruling stands, the $400,000 in damages will be paid to 11 members of the “T-Girls” who testified at the case hearing. Each member will receive between $20,000 and $50,000, depending on how much state officials determined they suffered.

Cassandra, the woman who received the voice mails from Penner, was awarded the highest amount – $50,000 – for the “emotional, mental and physical” suffering she experienced.

The state found two other members of the group also suffered physical problems based on this incident.

Additionally, the bar was ordered to pay $5,000 in civil penalties.

This incident marks the first time labor commissioner Brad Avakian has filed a complaint under the 2007 Oregon Equality Act.

Citizens have filed eleven total complaints under the law, a BOLI spokesman said.
 

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That's f*cked up because if I walked into a bar and saw trannie freaks there, I'm going to assume that the establish carters to f*ggots and tranny freaks. This is sure to f*ck up dude's business.
 

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As a customer I would not be disturbed from the presence of transgenders in a club but I imagine for many guys it would be different.

Anyway if it was for me any private activities should be free to give service to whoever they wanted without any interference from the state, just like many clubs are free to give free entrance to girls (making in fact a discrimination based on gender since guys till pay) at the same time they should be free to use similar measures.

Quite stupid honestly to contact directly one of the members of such group.
 

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Don't talk on the f*cking phone. It's that easy. Don't leave evidence. Tell them to GTFO but don't leave a damn voicemail.
 

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In North America its a capital offense to hurt a woman's feelings OR a man dressed like a woman.

Gay is the new ruling class of America. Did you hear that Jaylan, you're a Queen!
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

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LiveFreeX said:
In North America its a capital offense to hurt a woman's feelings OR a man dressed like a woman.

Gay is the new ruling class of America. Did you hear that Jaylan, you're a Queen!
Lmao youre so lame. Does it make you upset that I do just fine with women in North America, yet you had to travel around the globe to find anything decent?
 

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Jaylan said:
Lmao youre so lame. Does it make you upset that I do just fine with women in North America, yet you had to travel around the globe to find anything decent?
Didn't you just say recently in one of your 6500+ posts over at loveshack that you weren't seeing anyone?
 

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Didn't you just say recently in one of your 6500+ posts over at loveshack that you weren't seeing anyone?
I wasnt aware that not dating anyone seriously meant that I was not hanging out with females in general :rolleyes: Does this site not advocate for guys not getting tied down into anything serious too soon with the wrong woman?

But I love that you lurk over my posts and continually bring it up here. Maybe you can fill everyone in on my recent No Fap challenge.
 

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Jaylan said:
I wasnt aware that not dating anyone seriously meant that I was not hanging out with females in general
The girls over at loveshack don't count.

Jaylan said:
Does this site not advocate for guys not getting tied down into anything serious too soon with the wrong man?
Oh you devilish rapscallion you.
 

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The guy shouldn't have to pay a thing if it's a privately owned business. This is a bullsh!t case.
 
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