"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tramp stamps, tatoos, piercings, gipsy nails and stuff...its an apocalypse

Who Dares Win

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Maybe its me getting old, maybe being just 30yrs old in a facebook/tinder smartphone era its enough to make you feel out of fashion but I feel like being trash is getting the norm now.

Even the girl next door type girl serving your breakfast at the bar shows a tramp stamp when she bend, business receptionists with gipsy style nails full of brilliants stones and girls everywhere you can see with light clothes full of tatoos and Im not talking about a buttergly on the wrist, Im talking about aces and poker cards on their ribs.

Im not judging, I dont believe my dignity as human being is higher than theirs, its just that all this thing seems alien to me, fine with the bulk of people dressing all the same (now its hipster style among wealthy european youth) but dont you think its getting too much?

My instinct doesnt like girls like that, they may be big hearthed good girls but seeing a joker on her lower boobs while I play with her nipple doesnt exaclty make me think girlfriend material.

The few girls I know well enough to say they dont have anything like that are all taken.

Also what girl in her sane mind would get a piercing between her front teeth.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There is simple solution.If you dont like tattoos and stuff on your gf use duct tape.
 

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Well, why struggle to develop character the old fashioned way when you can become more "interesting" (pfffft) just by shooting a bolt through your philtrum? Instant social cachet.

The current female fascination with ink and piercings is so gallingly superficial (literally skin deep). It goes something like "We can hook up if you have the right kind of decoration - I don't actually care who you are or what you're about". And they will say this sh!t without a shred of embarrassment - they don't even have the self-awareness to realise what it says about themselves.

Then you've got this "magikal thinking" with tats that often gets ignored. I know! I'll etch my skin with images and symbols of power and this will somehow make my life better. Seriously? What year is it? As with the first example, women mistake the symbol of the thing for the thing itself.

Eh, I know it's in their nature. Doesn't mean I have to like it.
 

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It's mostly a low self esteem move by women looking to attract attention to themselves. It's a TOTAL turn off for me. One tat it fine, but I really do not like unusual facial piercing, or too many tats
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, why struggle to develop character the old fashioned way when you can become more "interesting" (pfffft) just by shooting a bolt through your philtrum? Instant social cachet.

The current female fascination with ink and piercings is so gallingly superficial (literally skin deep). It goes something like "We can hook up if you have the right kind of decoration - I don't actually care who you are or what you're about". And they will say this sh!t without a shred of embarrassment - they don't even have the self-awareness to realise what it says about themselves.

Then you've got this "magikal thinking" with tats that often gets ignored. I know! I'll etch my skin with images and symbols of power and this will somehow make my life better. Seriously? What year is it? As with the first example, women mistake the symbol of the thing for the thing itself.

Eh, I know it's in their nature. Doesn't mean I have to like it.
You spoke for me too.

But we should take into account that this is not without precedent. Women already had "fake up", fake hair, and so on. When you see this stuff as merely an extension of that, it makes sense instead of being something new and different.
 

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It's also one of the chinks in "Self-improvement Game". Why should I invest in my body, social skills, career, etc when unlimited p*ssy is just one neck tattoo away? I'm kidding - but not really.

I think we'd all agree that self-improvement is worth pursuing for its own sake. But on a pound-for-pound basis, it's actually a pretty ineffective way to attract women. Something to think about.
 

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It's also one of the chinks in "Self-improvement Game". Why should I invest in my body, social skills, career, etc when unlimited p*ssy is just one neck tattoo away? I'm kidding - but not really.

I think we'd all agree that self-improvement is worth pursuing for its own sake. But on a pound-for-pound basis, it's actually a pretty ineffective way to attract women. Something to think about.
I think the neck tattoo has more to do with correlation to qualities women find attractive than causation. I.e. The meck tattoo isn't what women find attractive so much as it is the kind of attitude that would motivate a guy to tat his neck in the first place.
 

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I like tats and piercings on women. But I dont like seeing too many on their bodies, and Im not a tramp stamp fan.

But honestly, this topic is old and lame. Its comes off as typical fuddy duddy nay-saying of alternative expression. But it is what it is. To each their own.

Yeah I dislike certain tats and piercings on women, but I dont spend much thought on it.

PS - I have a couple tats and piercings...but I dont wear the piercings anymore really...and I can easily wear professional attire to hid my tats.
 

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I think the neck tattoo has more to do with correlation to qualities women find attractive than causation. I.e. The meck tattoo isn't what women find attractive so much as it is the kind of attitude that would motivate a guy to tat his neck in the first place.
Change it to "the attitude they imagine the guy has" and you've got it. Imo, the way you put it assigns too much rationality to their thinking.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Change it to "the attitude they imagine the guy has" and you've got it. Imo, the way you put it assigns too much rationality to their thinking.
Ha! Took the words right out of my mouth. High five.
 

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Change it to "the attitude they imagine the guy has" and you've got it. Imo, the way you put it assigns too much rationality to their thinking.
But by that assumption you could put a temporary neck tattoo on any AFC and he'd get more play...obviously not the case.

Dominance transcends any 'type.'
 

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Body signs in the past was for slaves, especially piercings , that is why when you marry a woman you put a ring on her hand and earring , it is a sign of ownership, so as women want to be fvcked by more Dominant guys , they increase the polarity by adding these signs , so she is actually a signalr to bad boys and thugs that they are available for them . they basically just signaling to the "right" guy they secretly want
 

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fastlife:
I think the neck tattoo has more to do with correlation to qualities women find attractive than causation. I.e. The neck tattoo isn't what women find attractive so much as it is the kind of attitude that would motivate a guy to tat his neck in the first place.

AttackFormation:

Change it to "the attitude they imagine the guy has" and you've got it.

Agreed, and it also explains why they get tattooed themselves. It’s the projection of their desire they have for the alpha male. I work with the thesis that the more tattoos a girl has, or how bold the designs, the bigger jerk her hamster loves. I personally like girls with tattoos because I love the art but mostly just because it’s a good sign of drugs and sluttiness. (I'm never getting married.) So while the world may be coming to an end, at least now it’s easier to quickly identify women with poor character.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't go for sh!t I don't like, simple as that. You're not going to be able to stop this trend of barbells through noses any time soon. You just have to look the other way. If you're shopping for Ford trucks you don't look at Smart cars.
 

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Funny! I was hit on, the other day, by a HB7 with a large neck tat. Since then, I've given some thought to my previous "no tattoo" position. Most of my plates have tats, but most of my plates are just target practice. I still have fun, flirt/banter, care, and am friendly with them, but LTR material, they are not.
 

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I have always hated tattoos. At restaurants and clubs I tip girls extra if they don't have any tattoos.
 

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Where I am from if a girl has a neck tattoo that's the bottom of the trash bag of women, only hoodrats and women who get trains ran on them by gang members have those tats. I stay away from the hos they f u ck ya and set you up later to get robbed
 

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I'm starting to think, and agree with some of the things I've read, that tattoos on women are a good indicator of feminism.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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