"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tramp Stamp; What's Your Take?

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There is a girl at my work, who is real cool to chat with. She has a chest tatoo, above her right tata......and a large, "barbed-wire" tat above her ass. Personally- I don't do tats(not ONE on me!) What do you guys know about "tramp stamps" on women? I hear the freakiest girls, get them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's not always a bad thing.

But yeah, it's typically the wild girls that get tatoos.
 

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The tats are SO common now, that you can't say much about the chicks that have them versus those that don't.
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ink on a chick is stupid, what a lame fad. I refuse to comment on them. if they ask me what I think about it I tell her ...........great!.........and in my mind its..... whatever! chicks get ink to try and let people know shes a "daredevil".....totally lame
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tramp stamp tats are too common nowadays. Maybe like 8 years ago it that statement would have been true, but now, it's just a fad.

With that said, I still remain true and use it as a target to blow my load on. Even better if I can make it skip up her entire back and leave a nice glob on the tat!
 

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If she got a tattoo on her chest then it means she is a super wh*re. The only women I've seen with tats there were strippers, pornstars or hookers.
 

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what does one say about a gal with no tats?
 

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It doesn't say anything.

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There's a good body of research which shows people with tattoos are significantly more likely to engage in certain activities such as promiscuity, heavy drinking, drugs, or smoking, than those who have none. You may find exceptions but we're concerned with the general trend of what happens more often than not.

And certainly, the what and hows of tattoos are important factors to consider in the freak spectrum. Small tattoos in discrete locations; “safe” tatoos of shamrocks, fairies, butterflies, etc.; maybe just one tattoo; suggest a tattoo amateur. Maybe some girl who got it on a whim and would never do it again. Large tattoos, multiple tattoos, tattoos in extremely painful areas (such as the chest, lower back, inner arm), and racey tattoos suggest a quite a different character.

Age is also a factor. If a 30 year old woman has a tramp stamp, she may not be wild anymore but she was 10 years ago.

And certainly, naturally, tattoos are nothing to solely base a decision, but is a good tool to help guide you to the ladies who may hold the truth that you seek. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How OLD is that research?

Really, there's so many women with ink now, that i think it hardly matters.

Things have changed so much. We used to have a saying at work: "One tattoo, one drunk party. Two tattoo's, two drunk parties. Three tattoo's - one sociopath."

I don't think it applies anymore.

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what about the chicks that have a tattoo of a kawk on her thigh with arrow pointing to her snatch and says "insert here"?
 
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Tramp stamp - what good are they? I'm a good christian, so I only do missionary style - it is a sin any other way!!!
 

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yeah buddy don't sin now!....lol.....and watch her run because you have no creativity AND TRY explaining that lame excuse to her, I'd love to see her face when she hears that,........lol
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrStabAHo said:
Wow a lot of hate in here...I remember when I was in that phase...
Does anyone else see the irony here? Anyone?
 

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yeah and what phase are you in now?....hate? ....what are you talking about? .....why does all the weak always try to equate people jivin back and forth to hate?.....what he said cracked me up.....why would I hate somebody that made me laugh?......why don't you just go into your weak little "I'm going to crawl underneath a rock so nobody hates me" phase....lol
 

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penkitten said:
what does one say about a gal with no tats?
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I prefer girls who are not blemished by the ink. Penkitten- are you one of them?
 
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Last Man Standing said:
Does anyone else see the irony here? Anyone?
No one answered the obvious riddle!
 

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LMS, *wink*

There's going to be a lot of wrinkly old women with wrinkly old blobs of ink above their wrinkly old asses at a LOT of nursing homes in 30 years.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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