"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Training to be a Navy SEAL. These good work outs? Gracias

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Training to be a NAVY SEAL. Good work outs???


I welcome constructive criticism. My ass is going to be on the line. : )


Monday

Morning:

- play basketball - shoot around.
- conditioning - run 5 miles or more
- sit ups - crunches, leg raises
- upperbody - push ups, pull ups, Tricep Dips on bleachers

late afternoon/ evening:

Taekwondo class with Master Ann.

Tuesday

Morning:
-play basketball-shoot around
- conditioning- run 5 miles or more
- sit ups
-lowerbody - legs- squats, polymetric exercises on the bleachers.

late afternoon/ evening:

Brazilian Jui jitsu class with Mr. Garcia.

Wednesday

rest/ relaxation day/ work on Flexibility.

Evening:
- Yoga class with Mrs. Smith.

Thursday

Morning:

Conditioning - Run 3 miles

Speed Conditioning workouts:

- Jump ropes
- Basketball workouts- touching the lines and back
- Sprints.

Evening:

- Kung Fu/ Boxing class with Master Zamora.

Friday:

Morning

- Light work out- run 2 miles
- Play basketball with the guys
- light sets of push ups, pull ups, sit ups.

Afternoon: Go to the Gun and Firing range work on accuracy - Play Paintball with friends later on.

Evening: Shotokan Karate - with Mr. Lee

Saturday:

Rest/ relaxation day/ work on awareness

Evening: Tai Chi class with Mr. Roberts

Sunday:

Rest/ Relaxation day/ work on Flexibility

Evening: Yoga class with Mrs. Smith


Note: I'd like to thank My Lawyer Sister who is very supportive and paying for all these martial arts classes : )
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Navy SEAL Requirements

Entering training to become a Navy SEAL is voluntary. Anyone can volunteer, and officers and enlisted men train side by side. In order to enter SEAL training, however, they do have to meet certain requirements. Those wishing to volunteer for SEAL training have to:

1. swim 500 yards in 12.5 minutes or less, followed by a 10-minute rest
2. do 42 push-ups in under two minutes, followed by a two-minute rest
3. do 50 sit-ups in under two minutes, followed by a two-minute rest
4. do six pull-ups, followed by a 10-minute rest
5. run 1.5 miles in boots and long pants in less than 11.5 minutes



http://science.howstuffworks.com/navy-seal4.htm


i'd focus my energy on being able to meet the requirements above and i don't think what you posted does that.
 

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EFFORT said:
Navy SEAL Requirements

Entering training to become a Navy SEAL is voluntary. Anyone can volunteer, and officers and enlisted men train side by side. In order to enter SEAL training, however, they do have to meet certain requirements. Those wishing to volunteer for SEAL training have to:

1. swim 500 yards in 12.5 minutes or less, followed by a 10-minute rest
2. do 42 push-ups in under two minutes, followed by a two-minute rest
3. do 50 sit-ups in under two minutes, followed by a two-minute rest
4. do six pull-ups, followed by a 10-minute rest
5. run 1.5 miles in boots and long pants in less than 11.5 minutes



http://science.howstuffworks.com/navy-seal4.htm


i'd focus my energy on being able to meet the requirements above and i don't think what you posted does that.

I can adjust my training according to that. I don't see a problem with taking martial arts classes though.

I think it'll toughen me up and make me more alert.
 

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Thanks.

One of the things I like about the SEALS is they put their sense of individualism second for the good of the team.

To be honest, I dont know If I have what it takes to become one. But I will give it a try.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mainly focus on swimming.
Get comforatable being in the water and get used to holding your breath.

Don't sweat BUDS. The drop rate is high because the guys they take go in unprepared. Go in in-shape and comforatable in the water and you'll be fine.
 

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Thanks, now just to mention I'm now thinking of joining the Airforce.

With me having a bachelors degree and knowing a foreign language. I'm going to be earning a bad ass wage.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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