"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RedSky

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I'm on a limited budget so i can't go to gym as often as i would like.
I can only manage to afford to go 2 the gym 2 days a week, so would 2 hours or longer workouts been fine or are they simply to much?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm not sure the logic behind it is really appropriate with weight training, in the same way a single mega 6 hour workout a week wouldn't do a whole lot of good for you. Consider investing in some cheap home equipment like a pull up bar or a cheap set of dumbells.
 

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They don't have gym subscriptions by you? Most places offer monthly, yearly subscriptions and then you can use the gym as much as you like.

Yes, you can do a two day split. That would be fine. I wouldn't trade a gym for a couple dumbbells and pullup bar. You won't get as good results with that. There are other options though, but I'd just do the gym
 

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Two days are fine. They are actually better for some, and most people can progress on them.

Make sure to do free weights at the gym if you didn't know that already. Squats/deadlifts/bench/rows/chinups etc...

I was going to link to a two day on IA's but I can't get onto the site. Maybe later...
 

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Ok here is a good one to start of on:

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2-3 x 6-8

Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12

Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2-3 x 6-8

Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2-3 x 10-12

Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure

Barbell Row 2-3 x 8

EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1-2 x 10

Squats 2 x 10

Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

Taken from:

http://www.ironaddicts.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11381

Courtesy of Iron Addict.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RedSky

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Wow, i sent this post 2 years ago, how times change

Thanks for the advice everyone anyways.
Nowadays if i can't train at gym i just train at home.

Although i have to say, it can be very challenging to train at home without some of the gym machines
 

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Training for a weight you do at home also you take a healthy food and a do exercise or you also a do yoga or mediation at home it really a good for you ,if you get training then you take from a fitness trainer is best.
 

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You may try some yoga at home.There are so many free guides are available regarding to that.You may attention for your work journals and food habits.
 
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