"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Training my girlfriend

itishe

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My girlfriend recently got a gym membership and asked me to help her work out. I was curious what exercises you'd recommend tomorrow for legs. I was thinking of having her do some squats, leg presses, and maybe some calf-raises. Something light and fun so that she doesn't get thrown into the fire too fast. Any other recommendations.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EFFORT

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check the "i'm training a girl thread"
 

Throttle

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well, you can either humor her with girly weights, or convince her to 'trust you' -- you don't want her to look like a man & she couldn't lift her way into that look w/o chemical 'assistance'...

the lithe lady i train most is addicted to lifting and two years in she still looks rather more like a tennis player than any other body type (when she started she looked like a soft but skinny tennis player from the 70s and now she's built like almost any gal [excluding the williams sisters!] playing tennis these days -- think sharapova's bod!)

she's gotten there doing basically effort's "where to start" Option B program (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444) and never eating quite enough protein. oh well! she's a fiend for poultry, salads & oatmeal, and has been slow to embrace eggs & beef.
 
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