"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Training for Rock Climbing

Huffman

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Hey guys,

I've recently become quite fond of rock climbing. But I feel that I lack the strength to do difficult routes.
Now what kinds of exercises would you say are good for building up strength?

As in Hands/Fingers, Upper back, ...? What would you recommend?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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masterbating bulds good strength in your forearms...but you are better doing compound exercise rather than isolation exercies
 

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The best training for rock climbing is....rock climbing!!

I'm serious, as a former climber myself. However, there's some really good exercise that you can do to help.

For climbing you need extremely strong grip strength, forearms, back and legs. The best climbers uses their legs the most.

Do hand-grip exercises, like those ones you grip in your palms and squeeze, and definitely do pull-ups. I once saw an expert climber doing pull-ups with one finger on the bar. One-fingered pull-ups, simply amazing. That should be your goal.

But..the real training is simply to keep climbing. Your body will adapt eventually the more you climb. You find yourself doing more and more difficult routes.

If you go to a gym and do not have someone to belay you, you can use the bouldering wall, ie not be roped in. You don't need a partner to train.

It's addicting and a great workout, have fun.
 

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My main hobby is weightlifting, and one of my other interests is rock climbing, which I just started doing again.

Having not been for a while, the biggest thing for ME was forearm endurance. Pinch grip strength/endurance was where I struggled. Rock climbing has a lot to do with forearm strength/endurance and from being back in again MOST of the holds on the harder routes were a matter of pinch grip. Having said that, obviously having a high strength to weight ratio, good upper back strength, and a lower weight, will help out.

Here is a good article on grip training:

http://www.rosstraining.com/articles/trainingthehands.html

The "door grab" and the "fingertip pushup" in particluar, are most relevant to pinch grip.

Hope this helps,

Quagmire
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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future_strongguy said:
How about trying some sandbag training? Lots of cleans with the sandbag + pinching it at the folds = increased back and grip strength.
In my link :up:
 

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Wow, thanks! I'll definitely add some of those hand exercises to my workout plan.
Gotta get better at pullups too *ugh* ;)
 

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Quagmire911 said:
Another good piece of equipment is a fingerboard. Such as:

http://www.bendcrete.com/gallery/Bendcrete Products/fingerboard-L.jpg

http://www.allclimbing.com/images/M...and_developed_by_Ben_Moon-20071003-173631.jpg

There are a lot of variations though.

What is your best climb? Don't know if their is an international system or not.

Good luck.
I'll second the use of a fingerboard. It's good training to start going pull-ups using different grips, or just hanging from it is a great finger/grip workout.

Quag, we use the class 5 rating system here.

Here's a good chart of the classes.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grade_(climbing)#The_.E2.80.9Cnew_wave.E2.80.9D_aid_system:

My personal best was a 5.10d on outside rock, a 5c on your system in the UK. It's been awhile since I've climbed. This thread makes me want to get back into it.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm just getting into it right now ;)
Last time I barely managed a 5+, but I think I'm doing pretty well for starters.

Of course I'm going climbing regularly - the exercises are merely meant as a bonus for me, to improve more quickly.

Thanks for your advice!
 
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