"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Training for Rock Climbing

Huffman

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Hey guys,

I've recently become quite fond of rock climbing. But I feel that I lack the strength to do difficult routes.
Now what kinds of exercises would you say are good for building up strength?

As in Hands/Fingers, Upper back, ...? What would you recommend?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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masterbating bulds good strength in your forearms...but you are better doing compound exercise rather than isolation exercies
 

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The best training for rock climbing is....rock climbing!!

I'm serious, as a former climber myself. However, there's some really good exercise that you can do to help.

For climbing you need extremely strong grip strength, forearms, back and legs. The best climbers uses their legs the most.

Do hand-grip exercises, like those ones you grip in your palms and squeeze, and definitely do pull-ups. I once saw an expert climber doing pull-ups with one finger on the bar. One-fingered pull-ups, simply amazing. That should be your goal.

But..the real training is simply to keep climbing. Your body will adapt eventually the more you climb. You find yourself doing more and more difficult routes.

If you go to a gym and do not have someone to belay you, you can use the bouldering wall, ie not be roped in. You don't need a partner to train.

It's addicting and a great workout, have fun.
 

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My main hobby is weightlifting, and one of my other interests is rock climbing, which I just started doing again.

Having not been for a while, the biggest thing for ME was forearm endurance. Pinch grip strength/endurance was where I struggled. Rock climbing has a lot to do with forearm strength/endurance and from being back in again MOST of the holds on the harder routes were a matter of pinch grip. Having said that, obviously having a high strength to weight ratio, good upper back strength, and a lower weight, will help out.

Here is a good article on grip training:

http://www.rosstraining.com/articles/trainingthehands.html

The "door grab" and the "fingertip pushup" in particluar, are most relevant to pinch grip.

Hope this helps,

Quagmire
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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future_strongguy said:
How about trying some sandbag training? Lots of cleans with the sandbag + pinching it at the folds = increased back and grip strength.
In my link :up:
 

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Wow, thanks! I'll definitely add some of those hand exercises to my workout plan.
Gotta get better at pullups too *ugh* ;)
 

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Quagmire911 said:
Another good piece of equipment is a fingerboard. Such as:

http://www.bendcrete.com/gallery/Bendcrete Products/fingerboard-L.jpg

http://www.allclimbing.com/images/M...and_developed_by_Ben_Moon-20071003-173631.jpg

There are a lot of variations though.

What is your best climb? Don't know if their is an international system or not.

Good luck.
I'll second the use of a fingerboard. It's good training to start going pull-ups using different grips, or just hanging from it is a great finger/grip workout.

Quag, we use the class 5 rating system here.

Here's a good chart of the classes.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grade_(climbing)#The_.E2.80.9Cnew_wave.E2.80.9D_aid_system:

My personal best was a 5.10d on outside rock, a 5c on your system in the UK. It's been awhile since I've climbed. This thread makes me want to get back into it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm just getting into it right now ;)
Last time I barely managed a 5+, but I think I'm doing pretty well for starters.

Of course I'm going climbing regularly - the exercises are merely meant as a bonus for me, to improve more quickly.

Thanks for your advice!
 
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